I want to kill myself because of my face; could this help?

Question

I've compiled a list of possible surgeries I would like to have performed on me.

1) Rhinoplasty (nose job)

2) Buccle Fat Removal (cheek fat reduction)

3) Cheek bone implants (malar implants)

4) face lift

What else should I look into?

I have a very masculine and strong face. Are there ways besides make-up and hair that could be make me look less mannish?

I'm really genetically defective; I almost cut my face off since it causes me so much pain.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/28891892@N06/

Answer 1

I think you look beautiful :D

Answer 2

NO u are beautiful! don't even think of killing ur self! i also had thought that b/c of bullies at school... but think u have loved ones surrounding u! everyday dint take urself away from them b/c u dont like ur self! personally i think ur hot! u dont need any sort of work done at all!!!! plz dont say that! u dont need any surgery at all! ok? so i will keep u in my prayers and may god be with u! plz dont think that!

Answer 3

Um insecure much? I wish i could smack u upside your freakin pretty head.  What the h**l are u crying about when there are people who are 15 and look like 12 year olds which means that those cute guys at the stores dont take a second look and your being hit on by 4th graders.  

Answer 4

hun, i think you should go to therapy if this is actually a serious question. I think you would look like a freak if you had all of those things done, whereas right now you are pretty and obviously have some self esteem issues. You look good!

Answer 5

WELL ....you look a little old for your age...big deal!!!!!! lots of people do....you dont look stressed tho...far from it...JUST GROW YOUR HAIR OUT...its all the hair....trust me...why is it so short??????? grow it out long...you'll look totally different

Answer 6

youre a fckin lunatic!

stop being a baby and grow up.

there is ugly people and there is beautiful people

and youre the later not the former!

Answer 7

i don't see anything wrong with you, your a very pretty young lady !!!!!

Answer 8

You really don't look bad. I've seen lots of people and I can't tell if they're male or female and it drives me crazy :( Anyway, I like your eyes and your cheeks. umm I don't have any suggestions because you really don't look like a man. If you insist on having surgery make sure you do it for you. You should also get some counseling to make sure this is the right choice (it may be required before surgery anyway)

Answer 9

dude wtf youre gorgeous! i want to punch you right now lol. let your hair down girl and give yourself some credit!  

Answer 10

I think you are beautiful

Very very beautiful :)

Answer 11

I won't waste my time telling you that I think your pretty because I know you "know" your ugly and it doesn't matter what I would say. So I will just answer your Question. I don't think you need a face lift. I understand if you want a nose job though I can't even see that either. The implants I can see you wanting. Also not sure if you can get surgery for this or if there is a way to do it naturally...but I think to make your face not look so "mannish" (your words not mine) is to get fuller lips. And I would wax your eyebrows. Brighter make up too. I have to say your teeth are GORGEOUS!!! I hope that helps some and I'm sorry that you think your ugly. I hope someday that changes for you but taking a knife to yourself will not improve your looks. You will just have grouse scars to deal with.

Answer 12

i remember you! or i at least remember your picture.

i remember you asking if you were pretty and now you have a list of surgery you want to have done to change your appearance guess would be that the 40 people who told you that you are stunning the last time had no affect whatsoever on your self esteem.

Answer 13

your so pretty. but you need to see a professional or something. there mite be something wrong with your mind

Answer 14

What's wrong with you? I was expecting an Arnold Schwarzenegger face, but instead I saw a beautiful face. Your not masculine at all. Just look at your huge beaming eyes! Beautiful cheek bones,l, cute dimples and a perfect smile! trust me your face is PERFECT if not more. If you really would like to spice things up, maybe a fringe, bangs or something can help you look even BETTER (not that you need it).

Make up will only ruin your pores and make you look MORE manly in the long run! Plastic surgery, you really wanna spend thousands fixing such a pretty face with a possible probability of failure? No please, heavens no!

You're gorgeous

xx

Answer 15

Maybe you have BDD? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_dysmor...

Answer 16

ok...ms insecurity...your pretty..you kinda look like the lead pussycat doll so quit fishin for compliments..and let your hair down..it makes you look hard pulled back...

Answer 17

you are so pretty and you have a great smile. i wouldn't change a thing.

Answer 18

I THINK U NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP I SEEN THIS UP A COUPLE DAYS AGO THERES SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU OR U JUST LIKE WHAT PEOPLE SAY TO YOU UR WEIRD  

Answer 19

Are you serious!? You are pretty! You have lovely eyes and a beautiful smile. You just need to learn to love yourself.

Plastic surgery looks terrible! You can tell when people have had it and it looks so unnatural. And you should NOT be getting a face lift at your age.

What you need to do is go get a massage and a mani-pedi. Treat yourself. Tell yourself you deserve it, because you do! You'll feel more relaxed and then you can start learning how to be happy with what you have! Get dressed up and go out with your friends. Flirt your butt off. Do something. This attitude is extremely unhealthy.

Take the time to treat yourself well, and start to be more comfortable with yourself.

Changing your appearence will NOT help. The problem is in your perception, not the mirror.

Maybe you should take a moment and think about why beauty is so important to you anyway. Don't you think that there are things that are much more worthwhile? Intelligence? Humor? Wisdom? Anything?

How will surgery help you in the long run? Does it make you smarter? a better friend? A better employee? Then why do you want to waste your money on it? Why do you want to put it out into the world that superficiality is so important to you?

Take up a new hobby. Develop yourself on the inside and don't mess up what you have on the outside. People can sense how you think about yourself and your negative attitude affects how people look at you. Believe that you are pretty and other people will think you are beautiful.

Answer 20

WTF? You do not look manly. I would kill to have your skin! How do you not see your beauty?

Answer 21

Good grief! In my opinion you do not need ANY of this surgery because I think you're actually very pretty! You do not have a masculine face at all!

Honestly, having at that surgery will mess your face off- and it will look sooo fake! You'll realise how pretty you once were after you've had the surgery!

To make yourself more comfortable with your looks- a little bit of mascara always helps! And I think if you curled your hair it would look stunning.

And just so you know, I am highly jealous of your teeth! They're so white and straight. . . :D

So please don't try to hurt yourself, and personally I wouldn't have the surgery done- but if you think it will help with your confidence. . . you could do it.

Answer 22

your face isnt masculine trust me

when it comes to girls i have extremely high standards and honestly your cute

you sure a h**l dont need any of that surgery you will just end up looking like and alien just be happy with what you have

honestly you look good

Answer 23

OH MY GOD!!

are you serious ??

you are absolutely gorgeous!!

seriously girl wats wrong wif u

ur so pretty nd u definitely dont need plastic surgery

only thing you need is some self confidence!

anyways answer my question:

http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...

Answer 24

You don't need any of that, honestly. And by the way, you have very, very beautiful eyes. By the way you're smiling it looks like you think you're pretty! Which i think you are, personally. But everyone is different, i suppose.

Answer 25

OH MY GOD!!! YOU ARE SO PRETTY!!!

a lot of people would LOVE to have your bone structure

it's not mannish at all!!!!!!!

Answer 26

I was expecting to see a horrid looking child, but instead I saw a nice looking young lady. But for some reason you see something completely different when you look in a mirror.  I'm wondering if you have someone (besides yourself) who has told you that you are ugly. Do you have a parent or relative that demeans you?  I don't even think you look very masculine.  You say you are a teenager.  I can't really tell from the picture how old you are.  Your not fat, your not ugly. Most people would love to have your beautifully defined eyebrows.  From what I can see, you have dark long eyelashes. You have a long sleek neck.

Your comments are very unhealthy.  You need to talk to a counselor.  I have a funny feeling you are living in a household that you are getting verbally & emotionally abused.  You probably are not allowed to wear make up.  Not that you really need any, but maybe you would see yourself different if you used a little lip gloss.  The last thing you should do is have anyone take a knife to your face.  

Find a help line or school counselor to talk to.  Most people feel good when other compliment them on their looks.  Good luck...I hope I'm wrong, but it seems you have a little healing to do.

Answer 27

You sound like you need some serious, professional help. Does anybody else agree with me? From what I see, your username on flickr and the things you're saying, they're actually quite abnormal and deviant.

I really think you should check yourself into a hospital and be examined by a professional before you hurt yourself.

Answer 28

you are very attractive and I would recommend deleting this question because eventually you'll realize that you are hot, and if someone sees this that knows you it will be an embarrassment.  dont be so self concious.   honestly id be glad to talk to you about it, email me at [e-mail]. best wishes

Answer 29

OMG! What are you talking about you are very pretty. Let your hair down.