I want to know in a relationship how strong is attraction to people?

Question

when it comes to your childhood, for example are people attracted to domestic violence men cause their father was an abuser or cause they saw their mom get a beat down by her boyfriend/husband and for male do they usually go for mothers that was mean to them cause if feel like the women is like their mother.

Answer 1

It depends on what impact the violence can make on your childhood.  If they were properly explained and the difference between violence and peace makes healthy choice and determination on the mind, the child grown up in violent situations will never be violent.

Answer 2

i dont know about all that but .. but my boyfriend ( my sons father) .. acts like my dad to the T and even in away resembles him ( because they are both almost full native american so no immature comments please) so i guess it might be because he reminds me of my dad.. but becasue my dad died beofre he could meet him it makes it even a little more strange...