I want to know why its so hard for someone to except someone?

Question

hey i have always wondered why its so hard to except my dads girlfriend, i have my moments where i dont mind her and will be with her and her kids but there are other times when i dont and just hate her. me an my dad have fought alot and our relationship is broken and she kinda makes it worse. so ya help if u can

Answer 1

OMG ME TOO! i hate naomi...or in my case, hockypuck. lol. but, i know what youre going through...it's hard. i WANT to like her, but its hard. i just suck it up and remember WWJD...its not easy though. email me...and i can help further. k?

Answer 2

Because she's not your mom. You might get much more angry at her if she scolds or yells at you, because you feel like that's your parents job nots hers she's not even related to you. Also, if your relationship with your dad is shaky, then you might not be so cheerful towards his girlfriend. Maybe you subconsciously blame her? Just try to think of all the evil stepmothers, and people that hurt their partner's kids, and think of how lucky you are. Think of all the things that, as your dads girlfriend, she's not obliged to do. Good luck!

Love Haleigh<3