what's a good way to bring it up?
I'm worried he's gonna throw a fit.
I've wanted to leave him for a few years now, but I kept hem-hawing back and forth, I couldn't decide if it was the right thing to do. (we have 5 kids and he's GREAT with them) So anyway, I don't think he has a clue, I've learned to be real careful about showing my emotions to avoid a mind-blowing lecture and insult session.
so how to bring it up? or should I just surprise him with papers out of the blue? and should I get a divorce or a legal separation?
Thanks for all the good answers.
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