I want to move into my grandparents house and live with them for a year...?

Question

but my parents would NEVER let me. they live about a 4-5 hour drive away, and i love them very much. i love my parents too, but i feel like we fight too much, and i think it would be good for the both of us if i could live with my grandparents for a year or less. i have friends where they live, so im not worried about that. i know my parents won't agree, what should i do to convince them?

Answer 1

It'd be better for you to quit giving your parents c**p and do what they tell you to do and stay with them.They are responsible for you not your grandparents.

Answer 2

this is called taking advantage of the aged and that is not right therefore i would say no also. get along and get yourself grown up and take the bullet for being stupid.

Answer 3

ahh parents...i never get along with mine so i'm never really home except to sleep and soemtimes eat. other than that i'm out by 8am and home by 2-3 ish am.

Answer 4

I know what you mean.  I mother is verbally abusive and overall a tirant.  I don't think you're stupid to want to get away from them for a while.  the best thing to do, I feel, is to talk to them if and when the time comes that you're all in a good mood and haven't fought over anything major in the recent past.  Explain to them that you feel you need to be somewhere [like with your granparents] where you can function without worrying that you'll keep upsetting them.  It helps if your grandparents are backing you up too.

Answer 5

Just tell your parents that you feel that both of you need your space for awhile and living with your grandparents will help you out in the long run.  

Answer 6

you obviously just want to move in with your grandparents to go out and do what you want. and if you do that, you're gonna get knocked up.

Answer 7

If you're under 18 it's really between your parents & your grandparents (that is, considering they know about this) to decide where you will live.

Arguments between parents/kids is normal, they just want whats best for you. When you get to the nitty gritties of the situation ~ they've lived many more years than you have, so have a better understanding of how the world works.They are just trying to protect you, from outside influences & your own (maybe) misguded decisions...Treat them with respect & show a mature attitude/listen to their point of view when you have arguments. This will help to lessen the arguments.

Answer 8

first off if your not old enough to live on your own you should remain  at home. what ever the problem you may have with your parents im sure you can work it out.most teenagers believe that there parents don't want them to have any fun just stay at home clean up and do there school work. but when the child wants money, a ride or to go shopping the parents are great! remember it's a give and take relationship. your parents love you  and there is no one out there that would do more for you than them. remember that too.G/L