I want to move out of New York. The costs are going up & up. How to convince my also New Yorker fiance?

Question

Weve lived in New York all our lives and now gas is ridiculous along with MTa and overall cost of living. Thinking Pa. or Md. He drives, I don't

Answer 1

tell him that its best for the long run.  if you plan on having kids, tell him that you don't think its ideal to raise kids in the city.

Answer 2

Ask him about different places he has always wanted to live or visit. Then pick one from the list.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Take your fiance to the desired place and show how much better or easier life could be.  Be very specific:  cheaper rent for bigger apartment or house, decent style of living (places to shop, eat, go out), shorter commute times, better weather(?), nicer people (atmosphere), etc.