I want to murder my best friend someone talk me out of it?

Question

i hav liked this girl for about 5 yrs now we get along great hang out alot but for whatever reason dosnt feel the same way but its cool thats not the problem my friend knows i like her but goes out with her anyways even though he can easily go out with any other girls because hes a manwhore. he tells me hes still just using her (im not going to tell her this cause she wouldnt believe me) and the girl is to nieve to realize it, after awhile they break up he tells me hes sorry and that hes done i thought it was all over then last night he takes her out to dinner and they of course do stuff together i know its stupid and immature but i really want to kill him, or at least kick his ***, (which wont be hard)

Answer 1

How can you even consider this person a best friend? Or even a friend? He's a player and if she's not going to realize that, she's doomed to find out soon. The hard way. Move on with your life. You don't need to be stuck on Pause when you can be on Play. Five years is a long time, and it'll take more than just one person on Y!A to convince you to let go of your emotions and start living your life to its fullest. But please try. You don't need to torture yourself this way. You don't need to BE tortured this way. The girl you like obviously can't tell the difference between a trustworthy man and a player, so she won't be any good for you. You are better than this; please don't resort to physical violence. It is unneeded. You'll need time to sort out your emotions, so try to hang out with some other people this time. Trust me, it's better than fuming over a player and chick with not enough brain cells to know who should be the man for her.

Answer 2

Don't kill him, just beat his ***.

Answer 3

violenece isn't the answer, tell the girl, and try to make her understand.......................w/e u do do not murder him

good luck

Answer 4

Do anything but committing a crime.They are the one we should be calling immature.for killing or what ever,that's a No No

Answer 5

Don't even think of murdering him. That would be doing like the proverb "cutting off your nose to spite your face." You would ruin your life, and all for nothing. Imagine how you would like living in prison. Wouldn't be any girls there that you like and can hang out with.

So, what to do? You seem like a decent guy. Your friend is definitely not one. You should have stopped being his friend as soon as he admitted to you that he was just using her.  Do it now, and if the girl asks why, you just stick to saying that you don't like the way he treats her and you can't be friends with someone like that, on principle. She won't like your being mysterious, but the day may come soon when just that little bit will push her over the edge into realizing that Mr. Manwhore is poison for women.

He is the kind of selfish person who doesn't mind breaking someone's heart just for a bit of pleasure for himself. And what if he gets her pregnant and she is stuck with a baby and a father for the baby who is an absolute, disgusting, loser? (You may not know this, but condoms and other methods of birth control really do fail sometimes!)

Answer 6

Oh Sure that sounds like a great thing to do. You can go ahead and kill him over some girl that treated you like c**p never wanted to go out with you and for whom someone you will never have a relationship with.

You could end up in jail for the rest of your life....

Locked up in a tiny cage......

Eating whatever they feed you when they want to feed you.....

Saying good bye to all your normal friends....

Getting raped by all the big boys in prison....

And then 50 years from now get the lethal injection....

While waiting all those years knowing they will kill you one day....

Or you can just stop talking to your friend and say to h**l with both of them..

Now which sounds like a better idea?

Talked out of it yet?

:-)

Good luck.

Answer 7

Definately kick him in the balls. I've been in a similar situation. A girl spread rumours that I had the hots for this guy, he made a joke out of it and thought it was funny, my "best friend" told me he's annoying and that I can do way better. She was always saying she didn't like him, even before the rumours, but then it was this "best friend" who is now going out with him. I'm not as good friends with her now, friends shouldn't do that. Kick him in the balls and don't talk to this manwhore again. You will find someone better. I did

hope this helps--x

Answer 8

kill em i don't give a F**K