I want to propse to my girlfriend at our highschool graduation should i?

Question

we're both seniors in the same class at the same highschooland i want to propse to her and she knows about it and my family and her family both know about it and she said that she'd say yes and everythinks its an ok idea and i told them that i would do it before we went to college, but they dont know when so would this be a good idea to do at our comencement?

Answer 1

Bad idea. Don't ruin her life when its just beginning.

Answer 2

DEAR GOD NO!!!!!!!! I have a son your age and I know it would just devastate me if he pulled such a stunt!! Judging by your spelling and grammar, I think you need to be concentrating on class instead of your girlfriend.

Answer 3

No. Because commencement is not just about you. Very immature idea.

Answer 4

after the comencement at the party that everyone has after graduation would be better, that way all your friends could share in the moment.

Answer 5

Wow, I thought getting engaged at 25 was young.

I know you want to show her you love her, but proposing at this time is not the only way. There are other options.  

Answer 6

I just wanted to add, that if you love her do it! I have been married to my high school sweetheart since we were 18,(been together since we were 16) he proposed to me the month after we graduated high school. I still love him very much today, 10 years later. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

u are to younge and should waite till after college

Answer 8

What's wrong with just being her boyfriend until you both complete college?  

I wouldn't jump into marriage at your age.

Answer 9

HELLLLLL NOOOOOO!!!!!!!... propse to your girlfriend when you and her graduate COLLEGE!!!!!!!!!  

Answer 10

NOPE not a good idea

Answer 11

If your heart tells you YES.. Then go for it :)

Answer 12

don't do it.

Answer 13

No, I don't agree with that. That is such an emotional day anyway. You are both pretty young. I'd wait at least a good year or so just to see how things go. People change so much. I know you love her. If you do love her than wait.

Answer 14

Wait until after your college graduation.  You're way too young right now.

Answer 15

What???  At your high school graduation???  The celebration of education is all that needs to go on here.  The celebration of proposing should probably come after about 2 years of college or more when you can at least express your thoughts in better grammatical format than what you did here.

By the way, commencement has 2 m's.  I'm sure you love her, but I think you need to concentrate on the English you overlooked while in love with her in high school.

Answer 16

Do not get married, you will regret it. If you must get a prenup.

Answer 17

Well, Ask yourself this.. would this take away from the accomplishments we have both made to be here at graduation? OR would it take away from others? This day is not just about you and her.. it is also about your fellow classmates. Just think on it and you decide. I personally would find a better time and place for it. Good Luck and Congrats!

Answer 18

Don't do it at the graduation because you and your school friends are there to celebrate that. Also, when you propose, you want it all to be about you and your girlfriend so you should do it another time so it will be special, just for you two.

Answer 19

I would do it at like a family dinner after the graduation. You dont want to deprive the feel of accomplishment from her and her family. Let them enjoy their moment, you enjoy yours, and then later on that night, pop the question!