I want to run away and start a new life can i have some help on how i can do this?

Question

Ok i am 13 years old love my family and they love me back a lot

but i want to run away and start a new life with new name social security # and every thing else but i need a guide line to follow in order to succeed so can some help me

Answer 1

You obviously are running away from something.  I would use your family's love to try and solve the problem.  Running away would only cause pain, sorrow, resentment, and anger.  Facing the issue that is bothering you is a much healthier way to fix your problem(s).

Answer 2

I wanted to do that when I was in high school because I was in an abusive relationship and because of that, my parents and I didn't get along.  If you love your family and you all get along, keep doing well in school, get the best grades you can and when you graduate, you can start that new life.  Now if there is something wrong, like someone is hurting you or something like that you need to talk to your parents because you are so close.  Tell them straight up.  I know it will be hard.  It took me too long to tell mine, but now we get along and so does my daughter!  If you feel you can not talk to your parents, then look into counselors at school or look in the phone book for maybe a free or low cost counselor to talk your situation over.  You seem to be a bright and smart person.  Trust me, when you are old enough, you will have the choice to stay at home or start over.  But staying at home and getting an education are what are important now!

Answer 3

Don't do it because your parents will miss you so much and if they can't find you they will report you died and getting a new identity is what crimanals do. Running away is also like going to collge and in 5 years you will go to college 5 years seems like a lot but 5 years goes by really fast.

Answer 4

Brennden... don't leave your family.  If you feel like you're in danger, or if there's a problem, find someone you can trust, and tell that person.  The answer is not running away.  Whatever it is... it sounds like you'll be better off with your fam...

be safe, sweetie

Answer 5

Its not unusual for a 13 year old to want to exert his independence - but the way you suggest is not going to happen.



The best thing to do is to *excel* in high school, do well enough so that you can go to any college of your choice - pick one *far* away! Once you succeed on your own in college, you'll come to realize that your family is an important part of who you are.

So keep dreaming big - but dont disrespect the people who are currently supporting you.

Answer 6

My older sister says that she wanted to leave home from the age of 8. She realized then that she didn't particularly like our parents and has never interacted with my brother (he is 7 years younger and has mild special needs). She realized to do this she needed to succeed at school. So worked hard and she left home after A levels at 18 and has kept contact to a minimum ever since. She is 40 next year, married no kids and lives her own life. My suggestion is you do the same. you do not need to be so extreme to get away from family pressure. Just do well enough so you can support yourself and do your own thing.

Answer 7

That's dumb. Why do you want to get a new life and you still haven't started your own. I hope this is a joke.

Answer 8

Goooood luck.

Under law, you are a dependent minor which means your parents have responsibility for you. Besides that, can you imagine how it would affect them?

You would never be able to make it on your own anyway with no money. And you need to be 18 to change your name without consent.

Answer 9

IF you truly love your family.....stay with them.