I want to runaway!?!?!??

Question

Hi im cortney im 13 my life sucks balls!!!I live in texas it sucks my parents hate me because im not smart they only want me to get a's and b's in school but all i can get is d's soo i want to runaway to arizona(boyfriend lives there) but that is soo far away and i dont think i can run without a ride so i guess i have to get rides from random people i need help!!!!

Answer 1

its normal.

you will have problems with your parents in your teen years. you will be fine, its a teenage thing, and in a few years you will understand why you hated your parents and then you will love them. they want you to have good grades because they care about you, this world is hard to live in and when you go to work when u are an adult, people will not take you to work in places if you never finished school, thats why your parents care. they want you to have a better job in the future, enough to get good money. if you go with your boyfriend, you wll have problems, men are not going to take care of you, they sleep with you, get u pregnant and then leave you for other girls. I almost didnt finish high school, I ran off with my boyfriend when I was 16 and got pregnant, he was a bad men and left me with a baby (my son) and my son never saw his daddy again. now, I have to work very hard and life its hard for me and my son, no one helps me, but my mom. my mom its the only one that cares and helps me with my son, and I use to hate my mom (thats why I ran away), and know I love her, she is the only one in my life that helps me. If I could go back in time, I would have think about not running away with my boyfriend, then I would have finished school, have a great job and have a house and a car (which I still dont have) because I left school and ran away.

believe me, I ran away and came back home with a baby, no man, and no school. my life its sucky now. so think about it before running away, you will soon be old enough to make your life. if you do good things, then u will have your own place and dont have to live forever with your parents, but if you run away and get pregnant, then u will end up back in your parents house forever.

Answer 2

sweetheart what you are going and feeling is normal.  Your parents love you and know you are smart which is why they want you to get good grades.  They know you can do it and are capable of getting them.  Parents dont generally expect things from their children that they know they cant achieve.  I think you are just at an age where you have alot of emotions and hormones and believe me I went through it too.  Dont even think about running away to Arizona.  That is dangerous and could not only ruin your life, but end it.  Stay put right there with mom and dad.  You will get past this time in your life and you will look back one day and laugh at how hormonal you were.  What I did at your age was start keeping a journal,  I've kept one my whole life since I was your age and now its cool because I know I can share it with my daughter when she is the age I was when I was writing it.  that way she will know that I thought and felt like her and I think it will also help me to understand what she is going through to look at my thoughts when I was her age.  I look back on those years now and all I can do is laugh at myseld sweetie.  You are going to be fine, I promise.  Its not as bad as it seems, everything is magnified when you are going through puberty and even if you have already started you menstrual cycle you need to understand that the changes a woman goes through last for several years because your body is chemically different and it takes along time for your body to get used to it.  You will be this way until you are about 17 so hold on and relax and know you are normal.  As far as your schooling is concerned you need to focus on your studies.  it is very important and becoming more and more important now a days.  I also didnt do well in school when I was your age, but how you do now has no indication on how you will do when you go to college.  sometimes great students in middle school and highschool dont do well in college and not so great students in middle school and high school do excellent in college.  So dont think you are stupid because you are as smart as anyone else.  I think you should talk to your mom about getting a mentor someone who is not related to you that is positive and you can talk to and do things with and learn from.  Someone who will be like a big sister to you and help you sort things out.  I wish I was in texas I'd be there for you but Im not.  I didnt do well in school when I was your age, but hunny, I am more ackomplished and successful then most people my age.  Who would have known?  You will be fine.  Your self esteme right now is low, but just do your best, get a tutor and a mentor, and try your best to keep your mind off the boys right now because you have plenty of time to get to know what they are all about in your life.  Im 33 and still single and dating so that should tell you how much time you have to explore them.  Dont really think about them too much until you graduate highschool and go to college, because right now boys you are talking to only want one thing and that will cause you to learn about things you dont need to know about right now like heartache, pain, worry, jealousy, confusion, possible pregnancy, STD's and possible aids and daterape, the list goes on and on.  Be a goodgirl and take it slow.  Dont be in such a rush to grow up.  You are only young one time, you will have plenty of time to be an adult, and when you are you want to be able to look back on these years with a smile and not regret ok Love.  Good night get some beauty rest.

Answer 3

Your parents do not hate you. They just care for you and want you to do well. Just tell yourself you can do well and do as best you can. Study and do your homework and ask questions when you do not understand.

You will not get good grades all the time but if you focus more on schoolwork and try to be a polite and nice girl you will do great. Be confident and think highly of yourself.

Life is what you make it. [like Hannah Montana]

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