I want to settle down.. im pregnant?

Question

im 16 and im pregnant, i lost my virginity to a guy i was with for 2 years, and he got my pregnant. then he left me! now hes with another girl.. and they are "inlove". i want to find someone i can settle down with for my baby. my baby deserves a daddy.. and hes obviously not going to be around. he made it very clear.. trust me. so now i want to find someone.. where is my soulmate :(

Answer 1

Dont find love, love will find you. Dont be with someone just because you want a realtionship it wont turn out good in the end.

Answer 2

You need to take one thing at a time, your path is going to get all confusing if you want to have the baby AND a soulmate. The thing you need to do is concentrate on having this baby (if you are keeping it or giving it up for adoption) and planning on staying healthy until you finish highschool (hopefully you plan on finishing). After that you are going to have some stability in your life, I mean you might even run into your soulmate finishing highschool or after highschool, when your not busy with your baby. Take it one step at a time. Best Wishes!

Answer 3

You may find your soulmate today, tomorrow, or years from now. You can't really force these things. You just have to let them happen.

You have a more important thing to worry about now, and that is your future child. Take care of him/her. Things won't be easy, but stay strong, and things will work out.

Answer 4

The only advice I can give is stay in school. You wont be the only single mom out there, and plenty have made it. There are many programs out there that can help you stay in school and have a baby.

As for a guy, the good ones just show up one day when you least expect it. Good Luck with the baby, that should be you main focus now.

Answer 5

dont go "looking" for someone. that is a mistake. it will happen when god intends it too. blessings

Answer 6

not too be rude but....where is the question here?