I want to show my new friend around the park...?

Question

I, and my new friend, are both visually impaired. I met him at a recent Lion's Club event, and found out that he lives just down the road from me! He's never been to our local nature park, and I offered to show him around, because it's a really nice place.

He has training with the white cane, but prefers to be led on an arm, because he is getting older and sometimes needs the support of an arm. I have never led someone before.

Doe anyone have tips for a blind person leading another? Also, while I know the paths very well, having walked them many times, he doesn't know them at all, so what should I tell him to look out for? I'm so used to the pats, I don't remember what it was like walking them the first time.

Any tips or advice is much appreciated. I know he and I will have fun visiting the park, but I want to assure it goes smoothly...and no, bring along a sighted person is not an option. We are both independent, and neither of us have someone available to walk with us.

Answer 1

I'm blind and so is my boyfriend and a lot of our friends. There have been many times where I've lead my boyfriend because I knew the way and he didn't, or because it just makes it easier to have a conversation when you're not listening to follow each other.

What you need to do is offer him your elbow the same way anyone does sighted guide. If you're right handed, offer him your left. If you're left handed, offer you're right, this way you still have your cane in your dominent arm. Use your cane and be sure that you're aware of any steps or obsticles in the way so you can alert him. It is also important that he brings his cane even if he is being led, this way if you miss something, he wont.

You know the paths, so just let him know if you're getting to a rocky area, an area with an incline, an area with lots of shart turns, or anywhere where he'd have to be a bit more alert and careful. It sounds like you two will have lots of fun. Good luck.  

Answer 2

People who prefer to be led by the arm have learned to pick up cues from you where to walk, what to be cautious of, etc. I suggest you walk a little slower than you are probably used to. Take frequent breaks to discuss what is coming up on the trail ( I am sure your memory will be refreshed.) Point out things he is likely to miss - sounds, smells, textures. Try to remember how you first explore the park and how you discovered what you know now. Just relax and enjoy yourelf and I am sure he will too.

Answer 3

You might want to ask your new friend on how he wants to be led.