I want to spend more time with my older brother and I feel like our time together is limited.

Question

My brother is 4 years older than I am (i'm 20 he is 24) and we have always been really good friends. But lately we never really see each other anymore. I miss hanging out with him. The other night I got this horrible feeling that the reason I wanted to spend more time with him was because our time was limited... like he was going to die or something. I looked at this picture I had of him and I just started to bawl. I honestly felt like he was going to die. I coudn't stop crying. What is up with that?? Does it mean something? Should I tell him about it?

Answer 1

YOUR TIMING IS PERFECT.  It's summertime, and there is no better way to bond then to take a road trip.  If you don't like your car, rent one, make a memory for a lifetime.  

Bring music you both enjoy listening to, maybe a book on tape?  It's all about the journey (it's not where ya go it's who your with).  That said, maybe you'll plan a destination, like where u were born, something you both always wanted to see in the US, or travel to visit a friend or relative?

No question, a road trip, it reintroduced me to my father and we got closer in that year before his death than in the previous 30.  Fact!

Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 2

tell him

Answer 3

seen like you have a great brother........dont worry be happy.......tell him how you feel. if something wrong ....he is lucky to have you.  

Answer 4

Seriously?

it looks like you have alot of time in your hands to think about things like that. Get busy

Answer 5

You missed him thats's all. Don't think that he will die, just think of good things for him.  You just pray that 's all you need to do. Have faith nothing will happen to him.  You love him so dearly. I admire you.

Answer 6

If I told my older brother that then he would laugh at me. Just call him and see what's up. Find something you want to do and ask him to join or meet up for a special occasion: Birthday or Thanksgiving maybe?!!

Answer 7

why do you think he is going to die? is he into bad things, drugs? gangs? disease? hectic lifestyle?  or is it just a hunch from a bad dream/vision u had one night?

Answer 8

i seriecley think it is just a stage u r goin  through i feel that way about my brother and he is 4 years older than me too. i think cause u guys are moving out and stuff and have always been close u just dont like being away from him i feel that way too so dont worry