I want to stop breastfeeding.

Question

But my husband says to stay on it until Lucien is three. He doesn't understand that it hurts. When I say I say its time to ween Lucien he says studies have proven kids who are breast fed are smarter and more responsible. What should I do? Also my son is two.

Yes I know I asked this question earlier.

Answer 1

Tell your creepo control freak husband to cram it. Wow, the real issue here is why you don't have your house in order.

Answer 2

wow, two is a little long I think I plan on weaning my son when he is 11 months, they can start whole cows milk at a year so I think it is time to do it.  Just do it dont listen to your husband it is your body, your son is old enough to verbalize what he wants, etc old enough to be potty trained (or starting to be potty trained) he is old enough to be weaned.

Just start giving him some milk in a cup, or sippy cup, or bottle which ever you choose  

Answer 3

Your body, your choice.  NO ONE can force you to breastfeed if you don't want to.  Lucien is certainly old enough to not be needing breast milk as a source of nutrition.  I'm sure there are plenty of intelligent people out there who were never breast fed at all.  You have given your son all the nutrtional benefits nursing has to offer.

I don't know all the circumstances with you and your spouse so no offense, but he doesn't sound very supportive of your wishes.

Answer 4

    I am sorry but breastfeeding has to be a decision that is comfortable for you and your baby. That is who matters in this situation. So while your husband has read the studies he should also know that going for 2 years is an amazing accomplishment.

You have given your son an amazing start! You should be proud of yourself and tell your husband you are ready to be done.

  He should respect your decision in this. Good luck

And great job for sticking to it this long! :)

Answer 5

It hurts? That is a problem. Breastfeeding should not hurt, and if it does it means that there is a problem, most commonly a bad latch. I would suggest that you contact a certified lactation consultant for aid with the pain and any other problems you may be experiencing.

While it is your choice, breastfeeding really is the best nutrition you can be giving your baby and there are so many benefits.

http://promom.org/101/

http://www.kellymom.com/bf/bfextended/eb...

**Sorry, somehow overlooked the fact that your son is 2. But I am still slightly confused as to why it hurst. My son turns 2 in November and still nursing with no signs of stopping anytime soon. Sometimes he will poorly latch on, out of laziness. I simply unlatch him and encourage him to latch on better.

If it is biting, simply teach your son not to, which can be quite easy. Could you ex[plain a little into why it hurts?

Answer 6

I say that if you want to stop then STOP.  You've breastfed MUCH longer than most, you should be proud of yourself.  

Tell your husband he doesn't own you and can't make you do anything.  

I think the studies he is talking about are only done on breastfeeding until 1 year old.  

I'm sure your son will grow up smart, strong, and healthy...you have to teach him to be responsible.  

Answer 7

Breastfeeding is only beneficial for brain growth and development the first year. Two is a little old already to be breastfeeding. They are your b*****s, it's your choice. I personally think you should stop before your child turns two.