I want to suicide...coz loneliness is sick..can any1 help please?

Question

I'm in 12th. I was studying away from my home, in another state, due to health problems i had to discontinue and returned home. I am not going to school according to doctor's advice. I'm only 6 months away from my exams n competetives. My preparation is not so good. At home i hav dad who preaches a lot of philosophy, my mom is not staying with us for the time being and i hav no bro/sis. There is too much of pressure and n i have no friends here. Also due to my short temper and stubborn nature, i often pick up loud fights with dad. I feel sick, lonely and can clearly see my life and career collapse....please help anyone.

Answer 1

Whenever You Feel Lonely, Talk To Me. I Will Be Your Friend Even If You Are Angry, Stubborn And Short Tempered At Me.

Answer 2

being your home is there anyway you can go back to school? If you can't try getting out of the house and go where kids your age hang out and you  will make some friends and that will help with some of loneliness also praying helps as for dad maybe you can try talking to him and just let him know you need a father not a philosophy try it everybody need someone to lean on. Sorry to hear about your mom.Anyway don't give up on everything you have accomplish you came for don't give up now you are very strong and very smart you made it to 12th grade with health problem that is amasing if you can do that you can do anything god will take you the rest of the just pray he hears everthing and knows everything .You can have dreams and goals met just don't give up.Give god a chance to work his magic. hang in there girl you will be ok.  

Answer 3

dude, dont think about it. Get yourself out of your rut, write a list, go for walks, keep busy, whatever you can to put your mind off suicide and on your future and helping yourself now. dont event htink about it and work it one day at a time, think about at least one thing a day you look forward to and focus on that.  

Answer 4

just because you life seems to suck now doesn't mean it won't get better. your life is still just beginning and there are many more opportunities for you to get a diploma and even go to college and get jobs. ask your dad to help you find some. when you feel angry just tell your dad you need to calm yourself down and go into your room and do what you need to calm down, watch tv, scream in a pillow or punch it or anything like that then try again. im sure your dad would respect that more than screaming at each other. i know your a little old but you could go and start mowing lawns, raking leaves, or shoveling snow *i don't know where you are at so just guessing* and that will not only get you money but also you can get the opportunity to talk to neighbors and make some friends. suicide will just make things end and im sure you don't want to end your life when things are bad. thats like running away instead of facing your problems and doing something to fix them. when you get through this it will be the best feeling you have had in the longest time.

Answer 5

your a senior its all normal. dont stress and deal with life one problem at a time...it willl all seem so stupid when you get a few years on ya

Answer 6

This might sound a little strange, but have you tried talking to God about your problems? No-one can really help you except him, and I know he has really helped me in the past.

Answer 7

Are your health problems not going to get better?  You should finish  your school then you can move for a job, college, etc.  I hope your condition is better soon.  xox

Answer 8

see in life , just you take every problem is the opportunity to grow.

then only you becom a matured man. so forgot about all feellings . think about your future. now onwards think good . definately you will become a good man in future. and now concentrate your studies . try to get some good marks.  

Answer 9

I think that you should keep studying even though you are at home due to doctors advice it would make the exams much easier and you will have less anxiety about sitting them.

Reach out to others, commit yourself to a cause and volunteer yourself in charitable organizations, help anyone who needs assistance, as in the Samaritans, animal shelter, soup kitchens, mission shops. Focus your mind on others.

Take effort to make friends with everyone you meet online and offline.  Acknowledge when someone does something kind for anyone else.  Start small and work your way out.  

Get busy, get out and engage in some activities like a simple walk, bike riding, go on a picnic, hiking, taking your dog out for a stroll, bird feeding, running, kite flying, etc.

If your loneliness becomes unbearable, speak with your Dad and see your doctor about it.

Answer 10

way i see it is that exams arent life. it will pass. and if you do badly, oh well. its not the end of the world. if you have no friends, try harder. people like optimism and light heartedness. deep convos are for the bestie =) who cares what your dad preaches? youre your own person. follow whatever is right for you. losing your mom is something to be upset about but doesnt mean that you have nobody. even if your short tempered and stubborn you can make friends. just take deep breaths and think it over before you judge someone else or think someone is judging you. dont accuse others of not liking you...doesnt work. there are soooo many different careers out there...have some fun with it and experiment, you might find your element. it probably feels like youve hit rock bottom, but dont give up! nothing lasts forever <3 I know.

Answer 11

i fel ur mind is not stable ,so at present remember "NEVER make any decision when y r very frustrated or very happy.""

And dnt be a silly  girl and attempt suicide, 6 months is so much time,,, look u r in 12th ,every 1 goes through this lonely king period some or other time due to studies whic hrequire to be done in alone.

But think this way,, 6 months only an then u get good marks in exam and get back to ur home and meet family and friends, and be with them again.

so htis is time to study  and even if feel lonely ,chat, use phone,,, tlk with friends like this.

but please dnt go for what u think.. only idiots and stupid people who  r not strong minded and not determined in life,do all this things.

Answer 12

Hey,

I know it's a hard time in your life right now but YOU'LL GET THROUGH IT!! trust me!!! I don't don't know you but everyone has a purpose and a future in their life! I know you might be sick of hearing that since your dad sounds like a bit of a preach nut haha. But God loves you so much. He has so much in store for you, in the future!

You can get through this!!!

Bless you heaps xo

Answer 13

whatever you do don't hurt yourself

if you feel you can't take it anymore call someone 131 114 (lifeline) they have trained staff you can help

Answer 14

If your "livin life in queen size" then you should feel like a queen too. See sometimes life can a be very hard to deal with and sometimes it's hard to believe that it can be so good! Thats why it's just a phase that your going through. You learn from your past, and learning can give you experince, which makes you even more mature.

And please don't fight with your dad, thats very disobedient and rude. You should repect your dad. becuse he's doing the best he can. I never fight with my dad, even  though he can sometimes be a pain.

And try to worry about your exams more rather than your lonliness. See it in a positive way now you will be able to study in peace, without friends disturbng you.

And don't even think about Suciding. Because whoever takes their own life goes to h**l for eternity. It's only upto God to take your life.

Answer 15

You just need to focus, keep with it, it will get better.

Think about what you do have, your dad clearly loves you, and if you try hard enough you'll make some friends. Get some fresh air and keep your chin up.

Good luck.

Answer 16

Keep a smile on your face, life can seem harder than it actually is.  What seems bad now will not seem so bad in a day's time.   We all argue with our parents that's just part of growing up.  You're at a difficult time in your life where life changes are occurring.   Look at it as a challenge and not as a defeat.   Good Luck!!!!

Answer 17

Its not your problem. It's your age which is making you behave like this. You are in your teens so you should try to control yourself. You will get more calmer as the time passes by. You are correlating your incomplete preparation with other social factors. Try to be a support for your father and your fathe is not preeching infact he knows more than you and knows the importance of studying and life. So get set ready and you have a lot of time in your hand. Why do not start studying from today itself. You should try using internet infact try to concentrate on your studies. When you are getting time for internet then ovviously you will get for your studies also.

Answer 18

hey,dont think to do that

u r not a cowrd,only cowards say so!!!!

enjoy life to the fullest!there is so much in life!

Answer 19

Don't worry Im sure there is a good future ouy there for you.

Are you getting work sent home from school,also get someone to videotape lessons for you or just ask yoour professor. As long as you study hard and dont fall behind there is always hope.

Best of luck and I hope your feeling better soone.