I want two kids of the same s*x?

Question

Does anyone else?

I'm 25 weeks and just found out I'm having a little girl. After she's born I plan on getting pregnant again as soon as it's safe and I want another girl! That way they can be best friends.

So would you prefer two of a kind, or one of each? In general, I know some moms have waaaay more than 2.

Answer 1

do you have a sister? im thinking you dont. why? because you think if you have 2 girls close together they will be best friends....! ha! in a perfect world, yes. in this one, no. they'll get along im sure but you have to remember they will be 2 completely different ppl and may not have a thing in common. and instead of having one right after the other why dont you wait a while so you can get used to the first kid instead of throwing another one in the mix asap!

Answer 2

What will you do if you have a boy next ,throw it back?...sorry but you can not pick the s*x and to be so sure of what you want can set you up to be very disappointed or very bad mother !.I have five kids and the ones that get on best are brother and sister ...there is no rules about who you get on with but I find kids born too close together fight and too far apart are not close ,a two to three year gap is best...and regardless of s*x they will be good friends .unless you make on feel like c**p for not being a girl !.

Answer 3

I wanted one of each and I have gotten my wish. Is this your first baby? If I were you I might wait a bit after having her before jumping into another one so fast, little ones require a lot of attention and might like time alone with you before another little attention hog is introduced : )

Answer 4

well, the scenario you want is pretty much me and my sister. we're only 11 months apart b/c my mom got pregnant right after it was safe although im pretty sure it was an accident.  i am closer to her than my brother who is only a year and a half older. but we don't always get along even now that im 19 and she's 18, i love her to death but we are different from one another. another thing i hate is always being compared to her, even my brother sometimes because we are all so close in age. we fight more than i think we would if we were farther apart.  if ur up to having another kid right away go for it, but it wont be easy.

i wanna have three kids, two boys first, two years between them, and then a girl at least two years later or more, but u never know what your gonna get lol. ill be happy no matter what.

Answer 5

hahah well im sure we can all tell that you definately didnt have a sister growing up, because as perfect as we might imagine it to be, girls dont tend to get along so well. there would be alot of competition between the girls so close in age, thats not saying that boys wouldnt be the same, but there seems to be more competition between girls. i am currently pregnant with triplets, two boys and one girl. and as much as i am going to love my children wtih all that i am, its going to be alot to handle. so check to see how things go with the first child before hopping into another pregnancy.