I want your opinion?

Question

ok so I'm 16 and I dont have a lot of dating experience. Theres this guy in the grade above me that I cant seem to understand. About a year ago he changed to my school and we shared a few classes. He started talking to me online and was really sweet and funny and also really open, telling and asking me kinda intimate things (not sexual)The problem though was that we're both pretty shy and had trouble talking in person at school. I made some attempts that didnt work. We kept talking and then suddenly one day he told me that he thought I deserved someone better and stopped talking to me. At first I thought he was just being a jerk but as time went on I realized that maybe he was just unsure about what he feeled and wanted and that I should judge him so quickly. Then over this summer though hes texted me some, wanting to hang out but I kinda blew it off. Hes also even flirted with me a little at school. Idk if he really likes me or if hes just wants me cuz now I'm "hard to get". I'm also just worried that it wont work I we do go out cuz we're like opposites in some ways like political and religious views. Anyway, just want your opinion.

Answer 1

He wants you but he doesn't think he has a chance,so throw him a bone.

Answer 2

Um..well to start off, im 17 and also very shy in person (most of the people i dated, we built a relationship online). So i know exactly what you guys are going threw. i think you should just give it time, hang out a few times you will loosen up after you start to get to know him (like im sure you not shy with your good friends). As for him telling you that you deserve better, and then texting you awhile after that. i think it was just a tactic to see if you really liked him. I use to do it all the time haha. and yes i do think that he likes you, and for you guys having different views on things, that doesnt matter as long as he doesnt pressure you to believe what he believes, or vice versa. my boyfriend and I believe in different things and have been together for over a year. Just honestly, give it time. If your shy, hang out a bit, loosen up with him..im not sure when that'll happen. but it will..trust me i use to be the same way. Seems like a nice guy. Go after what you want :] goodluck

Answer 3

I’d send your friend an email. Here’s a suggestion, use your own words!

Dear friend,

I can’t seem to understand. You started talking to me online and you were really sweet and funny and also really open, we're both pretty shy and I had trouble talking in person at school. Then suddenly one day you told me that you thought I deserved someone better and stopped talking to me. At first I thought you were just being a jerk but as time went on I realized that maybe you were just unsure about what you felt, and wanted and I shouldn’t have judged you so quickly. Then over this summer though you texted me some, wanting to hang out but I kind of blew you off, even though you flirted with me a little at school. Do you really like me or do you want me cuz now I'm "hard to get. I'm also just worried that it won’t work cuz we're like opposites in some ways like political and religious views. Anyway, tell me what you think and feel.

Late,

xsonglessbird

Answer 4

ill say give him a chance and see what happens

Answer 5

if he really likes u, he should have acted smart the first time.. now its ur turn to act smart.. :P

Answer 6

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Answer 7

i think that he thinks you are better than him and that he`ll never get a shot with you...

try talking to him about it if you really like him (not in the internet though, in persom is best)

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