I wanted to get adopted but...?

Question

this is wrong with my family and i wanna get adopted and my mom aint up to it i know but i really dont like living with. See i wanna leave with my boyfriend and she is okay with me staying over there but i am not sure she wants me to move with him. Is there any way i can..jus please let me know what i can do

Answer 1

you may have to wait till you are old enough.

Answer 2

Wow...things can be tough at home sometimes but from experience I can tell you that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. If you want to get adopted so badly, stop and think about all of the children out there who don't have any parents at all, who actually live in an adoption agency and want nothing more than the family that you have, with all of its problems and everything else.

Things may be rough at home for now, but as many times as you've heard this...someday you will look back and think yourself crazy for saying you want to be adopted. Your parents love you, and if your mother doesn't want you adopted that only means that she wants you with her and she loves you. Don't run away from that, I grew up without that love and care and I wish I had it, I wish my parents were willing to stop me from going to live with some stranger, but they didn't care enough. Cling to the love your mother has for you. Don't just throw that away to be with your boyfriend. Boyfriends will come and go...mothers are forever kiddo. So just hang in there =)

Answer 3

First and foremost, learn to speak/write with somewhat proficient grammar.  Second, you are far too young to move out with your boyfriend.  Graduate first, then move in with him.  Third, the only two legal ways you can be released from the custody of your mother is to A.) Be legally emancipated or B.) Marry your boyfriend.  Your mom would have to sign off on that as well.  So basically, it's not going to happen.  Just wait.  You are young, graduate high school and make sure you two actually stay together before moving out.

Answer 4

No you have to stay with your mom until you turn 18...good luck

Answer 5

Home life is not the greatest right now so plan for your future and STAY in school then GO to college, get a degree in an area that you enjoy. This will secure your future, right now things might seem ruff, but this too shall pass, you have the rest of your life to play house, hence living with your boyfriend. Plan and prepare for your future right now! You can also talk to someone who can help you in your current situation, a pastor, or school counselor. Best Wishes!

Answer 6

Ummm...umm... if you're in America, I think there are states where if you get married, it takes precedent over laws involving minors and their parents.

     Otherwise, you'd have to have yourself declared an emancipated minor...I think that's what you're looking for, not adoption. Unless you want your boyfriend to adopt you...or his parents? I'm not going to say this is a bad idea, as it's your life and you'll make whatever decisions you make in the end, good or bad.

Answer 7

You're joking right? Before you can get adopted, you need to learn how to speak and write correct sentences.