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I was folding some laundry earlier and.......?

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I found a pair of thongs that were NOT mine! When I confronted my husband, he replied that maybe they belonged to our daughter!! She's 4!! How many 4 year olds do YOU know that wear thongs? What would you do?

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i would tell him to hit the bricks. it's time for you to find a new man.
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I'd first beat the lying **** out of him lying, then again for even having the thought about saying it might be the 4yr olds, then kick his *** to the streets, if you see thongs that's not yours and he gives an excuse then he's lying like a dogg and cheating.
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He's disrespectful and dumb. a 4 y/o? plz. I would tell him I need some time to think 'alone'.  Let him go somewhere.  During this time, you are giving him space to see what he really wants, you/his family or a single life/alone or a life sleeping with anybody who probably has slept with everybody but is committed to nobody and is therefore hoping to have s*x with somebody. In the meantime, learn how to forgive him. Don't blame yourself either. I have realized that no matter how good his woman is, a man will cheat if his mind is set to.

Maybe it is not his first time either.
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tell your husband to grab his shiit and get the ***** out your crib (:

[he cheated point blank period)
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I'm sorry, but he's cheating. The "She" probably slipped them in his pocket or something and he didn't know.

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Wow, this happened to you the other day too! Yikes!
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SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HES CHEATING

JUST ASK HIM TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH OR KICK HIM OUT!
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What size?  Do you belong to a gym?  Have you had family visit this summer?  How about friends visit?  Do you have a cleaning lady?  Anyone else visit your house?

IF NOT ANY OF THE ABOVE then I would wonder about the husband!  What kind of work does he do?  Is he stuck behind a desk and gets home from work at the same time every night?  OR does he have freedom to move around and isn't stuck in an office?  Does he get home at different times with no excuse or with bad excuses?  Has he taken better care of his appearance lately?  Started new habits or new activities lately?

IF you have no other reason to think your hubby is cheating then it could just be one of those strange things! ! ! !
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He's cheatin darling and blaming a 4 yo for it. He's a pig who needs to leave - now!

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oh, That must be why he didnt want you in the shower. unless you had to take the wet clothes to the laundramat after all, maybe one of those welfare receiving low lifes that hang out there put them in your laundry. I would have him talk to your pastor about it.
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Well I know that other have said it but I will say it again.

He is cheating!!!

And I bet that he would even go so far as to say that they are his and wore them before admitting to cheating.
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thongs in your laundry he is defiantly cheating .And then to blame it on a child .No way hes cheating
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He is not only a cheater..he is a liar

And to lie on his own 4 year old daughter

He is an idiot

The mistress probably planted the thong for you to find them

The mistress usually leave "hints" to break up his relationship with you

This way if you throw him out.. he has to go live with her.

Don't throw him out yet.. remember this ordeal

Get your stuff together

You working ? Save some $

Go to school.. get your "life on"

This may be a fling

You may have a competitor

This  may be a  a case of "faking &taking"

This witch is "faking it"

( What is the difference between wife & girlfriend?)

    huh?

The girlfriend fakes it better (learn the game)

Look good..smell good..dress good..hang with the girls

Leave that cute baby girl with your mother & go out a few nights with your friends

Believe me he will change,,he will worry about your whereabouts

Make sure you know (have) his SS number

What you do in the dark..comes out in the light!

If he continues to cheat..you got his SS number memorized just in case you need child-support

He will slip again..men are not  that smart

Statistics say women cheat more than men,.. but get caught less

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I would tell him that unless these belong to him he needs to do a lot of explaining. I really don't think he could come up with a good enough excuse so if I were you I would tell him to get the h**l out of my house. It's hard telling what kind of diseases he could be exposing you and your child to.
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wash them and wear them..hahaha..

just kidding.

he's probably cheating on you. and he makes one dumb dumb cheater at that if he's actually bringing that home so that you can find them.

does he have 1/2 a brain? and the other 1/2 on lay away?

tell him that if he doesn't come clean that your going to file for a divorce.

and see how many shades of red he turns.

good luck.

and by the way? did I say..come clean? hahaha...

well you know what I meant

:)
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Unless he is a cross dresser, I guess you had better have a long talk with him. Good luck.
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he's cheating
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Do you go to a laundromat? If not, seek the advice of an attorney.
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Maybe your husband put them there for you to wear for tonight! Get hot and s**y! Thats what men in general like! I am thinking about dressing my wife as hot and s**y as possible, as close to a super model as possible. Just trying to spice it up. Been married way too long to the same person for 14 yrs!
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what a f-ing liar!!!
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That happened to me once too but I was washing clothes in a laundromat so it was very possible that they were left in a machine or dryer.

If however you were washing clothes in your own home....ummmm...

first question I would ask myself is..is it feasible that IF he is cheating, would he or she really take the time to put the thong in the hamper? If the tramp left them there, wouldnt you have found them under the bed?

Maybe you had a female friend or relative over lately that maybe changed their clothes?

Otherwise, I would keep and eye out for your 4 yr old, maybe she's out working the pole after you and your hubby go to sleep at night.
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i'd leave the lying b*****d !! if hes got enough balls to cheat on you with a kids , then have no shame in your own game .. !! play fair or there will be consequences to follow !! (( not you or husband ))
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I would ask him what's going on? Why is he acting out? Is it something he might wanna talk about? Then, I would plan a vacation somewhere far (Antigua, Caribbean) and get his mind off of whatever girl it is. Then I would tell him that anything he needs or wants he can get from me. And I would start from scratch when we got back... xoxo....
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They were his. He just couldn't bear to tell you the truth. Please go easy on him. He was going to tell you about his other life, but he chickened out.
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