I was friends with this guy for a month and I thought he was a really nice person.?

Question

He told me he name was Max Thomas. He's from the virgin islands. I almost had s*x with him because he talking about how much he liked me and wanted me to be his woman. He didn't have any condoms so I told him I didn't have s*x without condoms and we do anything because I didn't let him. I was over his house the next day and he had a piece of mail on his bed with the name Godspower N Inyang. I asked him who was that and he said his brother. Well later I saw him using facebook under that name. I called him a liar and told him I don't want to talk to him. He got in my face and said he is not a liar and he is just getting to know me so that's why he didn't tell me his real name. Is it a foreign thing to not tell people your real names until you know them along time? and isn't it weird that he didn't want to tell me his real name but he wanted to have s*x with me without a condom. I'm glad I didn't have s*x with him

Answer 1

Having unprotected s*x with someone you barely know is NOT smart, so good job for not doing that! He was probably embarassed to tell you what his real name is. For the love of God, Godspower? lol

At least you only knew him for a month, just break your ties with him and move on if he makes you feel that uncomfortable.

Answer 2

Some people are a bit self conscious about their real names. I have a friend who absolutely hates her first name and will give you h**l and back if you use it. Similarly, my uncle hated his name so much he changed it and doesn't talk to the family anymore 'cause we kids still refer to him as Uncle Jay. There were people from my school who refused to let people know what their "foreign" name is even their closest friends.

Maybe he really does want to get to know you, or maybe he just wants to have s*x with you. Give him a chance and find out.

Answer 3

http://www.lesmingle.com/  has your answer.

Answer 4

I have a 90 day rule. I don't have s*x with a man until 90 days expire just for this reason. In those 90 days, anything that is incorrect will show  up (ie wife, unemployed, liar, drug addict, lazy, womanizer etc). You have to take your time in these days because there are alot of fools out there......  

Answer 5

it's not a foreign thing, it's an a$$hole thing