I was here a while back concerning my son and his pechant for using my panties...?

Question

Well after talking and getting nothing and then trying(I was desparate)Dirty magazines I have got no results he even asked to see me nude!! I have checked on a therapist for him I am worried though that he will view sexual urges as bad thing? Should I send him to a threrapist and risk that? I am so worried that it might damage him somehow?

Answer 1

The only things that your son needs to learn are:

a) control. (so he will no how to control his urges)

b) appropriateness ( so that he will no that it's ok to have these fantasies and fetishes, but as to what is right and wrong. You don't want to find out that he was in the girls changeroom masturbating with the girls' panties)

This is something that you and a therapist should work on together with him.

What he is doing is not wrong necessarily, just needs focus and understanding.

Not going to a therapist would probably harm him more.

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Answer 2

It's too late.

Answer 3

I agree with the first answer he obiviously has some SERIOUS mental issues that need to be addressed

Answer 4

You really need to get him some professional help.  He doesn't seem to know how to control his urges.  Something in his environment must be influencing him to have such thoughts.  Monitor his tv intake, music and what he is reading.  If he doesn't get help with this something bad might happen.

Answer 5

Your son uses your panties and wants to see you nude and youre asking us if you should send him to a therapist!!!!!!!??? The answer is YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!