I was just conned by my ex-fiancé out of a bunch of money - is there anything I can legally do here? ?

Question

Basically… I just found out she has been playing me from day one and gotten what she wanted out of the deal which was me paying for everything for her totaling approx. $30,000. Last week I found out she is now engaged to some other guy in Phoenix without even telling me or breaking up with me first. I actually found out through Facebook, which she blocked me a few weeks back but claimed her account got deleted. I have since found out that she has been doing this, going from men to men draining their pocket books and then moving on to the next victim.

So my question would be, is there anything I can legally do here? Anyway of recuperating some of my money back?

Please advise.

Thank you!!!

Answer 1

Sadly honey you are likely Got and just have to chalk it to a lesson learned the hard way.

As said though If you have any type of receipts you can take her to court But be real if you do win how will she pay you??

Not like she seems to have a job and do you really wish to be chasing her down (winning in court means just that) to get your dough back??

Now as Dan said if she took anything now that is different you can call the police and get her for theft Like using your card without consent taking from wallet without you knowing etc.

In the real though you were conned and there is little anyone can do sad as that is

Never give a female money unless you know she is All about You and you have been together for a good while.

Good luck

Answer 2

Since when do men have pocket books?

Answer 3

It depends.  It seems to me that if you gave her the money of your own free will, as a gift or at least without expectation of reward, there is nothing you can do.

If she used your credit cards without your consent, or wrote cheques with your forged signature, that is another matter.

Answer 4

take her to civilan court and warn the next guy shes engaged to  

Answer 5

You haven't provided any real details as to how, on what, and why you spent that money, and in what state your expenditures occurred.  Your best option is to seek legal advice to see if there are any avenues available concerning restitution from her, and if she broke any criminal laws.  Good luck to you.

Answer 6

if you have reciepts that would be great... take her to civil court, like judge judy.... could possibly be criminal depending on the elements of the situation.