I was just wondering about something?

Question

sometimes i think about my parents dying when they get older in ag (mostly my mom) i was wondering how do ppl live without there mothers and fathers the one who cared for you..inm extrmeley close with my mom prob a lil bit of a momys boy lol and when i think of it i get this feeling lol? anyone have any opinons how ppl go on ?

Answer 1

i am 13 and lost my dad when i was 5. you just go on with your life. i didnt understand what happened. now i do. i cant listen to any sad songs because i burst into tears thinking about him. like my frind bought that new jonas cd thing and it played the a little bit longer song and i had to turn it of before my friend saw me sniffling and sobbing. its very sad but you cant live your life in tears. my mom has a boyfriend in which she had 2 boys with but they arnt married. i couldnt stand the thought of it. someone else trying to be my dad

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is to let them know you care about them now, and enjoy the time you spend with them. Dont hesitate or put off spending time with them. We all owe a death, but it is tnot the end of us. It's a pretty complicated cycle to think about, what happens to us in this life, and the next ones. They might be your children or freinds next time, who's to say. But some people think that the major players in our lives tend to re-occur as people we know in the lives that follow, if you believe that way. Just let them know that you appreciate and love them, thats all we can do. There may be times when you get older that you may have disagreements with them, Just be carefull not to say hurtfull things to them, and try to acknowledge that the things that they tell you and how they try to guide you, is from their love for you, and their wish for good for you.

Answer 3

As you go through life you learn more about yourself and hopefully find that you have a strength to deal with things that come up.  You don't say how old you are so you may not have experienced hard times yet.    Hopefully you never will.  When you do you will find that you are able to go on and you will find that you are stronger than you know.  If anything happens to your parents, you will find a way to get through it.

Be careful about thinking in that way.  Instead of thinking of them dying, think of them living a long and healthy life.  Do some reading about the Law of Attraction and learn to attract happy and positive events into your life.  Your parents will die one day because we all will.  It doesn't have to be soon.  Whenever you find yourself thinking this way, refocus your thoughts to something happier.  

Answer 4

They way you feel about losing your parents is the way they feel about losing you... It's always a touchy subject but if you are willing to discuss it with your parents it might surprise you how much they think of the same things.

A talk like this might even strengthen the relationship

between you and your dad too!  Since you are already very close with you mom.



I really can't tell you how people keep going, but they do.  It's all a part of life... People die every second and the world never stops turning

Answer 5

its just best not to think about death too much. you just gotta live your life every day to the fullest and think positive. we all think about death here and there but dont let it get to you. my friends have lost their parents or one of their parents and its really hard to deal but your parents wouldnt want you to be sad when they leave this world they want you to be sucessful and happy in your life and live every day as if it was your last.  

Answer 6

I thnk life goes on pretty harshly and sorta bumpy for people that lost their parents. I know a friend who lost both of his parents' and he was really in a dark mood and just wouldn't talk to anybody. It's hard because sometimes your parents' will be there to support you and love you as their child. It's like having a great intimate bound broken. I think it's because you don't have anybody in this world that you can TRULY call your own sometimes :].

Answer 7

That is what is know as the circle of life.  Your parents raise you, you grow up and have children of your own.  Your parents die, your children have children then you die and life goes on, the circle of life.

It's hard to loose a parent but it would be worse if the parent lost a child.  Children are suppose to live longer than the parents.  We expect it to happen that way, but sometimes the parent out lives the child and that is the worse pain in the world.

Time heals all wounds and time will heal the loss of a parent.  When this does happen, remember the good times the happy times you spent with your parents.  Don't dwell on their death for they lived and laughed and loved.  Death is just a second.  One second you are alive the next second you are dead and have gone to a better place.  They lived many years on this earth so remember those years don't dwell on that second.

Blessings  

Answer 8

yeah, not the happiest thought of parents being gone. But, i'm sure when the parents have left us, that'll just push us, motivate us, and inspire us to take our lives to the next level. It will make us stronger as people and when we start families we'll think of all the good our parents actually passed down to us. think positive..be strong and enjoy the times while the parents are alive.

Answer 9

idk you just gotta deal with it.

i can't imagine my parents being gone. it's a scary thought

Answer 10

my mom passed when i was 17, from cancer. life has gone on, but it has had some serious rough patches. once the initial grieving was over, which took years by the way, the major moments in my life are always just a little bittersweet because she's not here. sometimes i tear up a little thinking how my kids will never know her, and it hurts to know that my kids wont have any loving memories of the 'gramma'. it's hard, but it's a fact of life that no one lives forever.....