I was on the beach. I removed my tshirt and I got these comments... am pissed off now!?

Question

I was on the beach, I removed my tshirt, as I usually do when I go to the beaches. There is this girl (she's fat btw) who is a classmate in my University (not really my friend) and she told me "Hey, it's ok now, I understand!"...

Then in my head, I told myself "wtf, what is she trying to say". Then, I just let it go as if I heard nothing. Then some times later, while I was playing football and got tired and returned to the group of classmates. She then told me the same thing. I asked her... What do you mean?

She then told me, "Oh, you are just trying to show your body, put that tshirt back"... I don't have an ugly body btw, am ok, not quite bodybuilt but it has some shape though!

This is the beach guys, right? Should I wear big jackets and jeans overthere... I just removed my tshirt, thats it, no big deal!

What do you think of her?

I really think she's one very narrow minded person!

Answer 1

look dude if ur hot and have a kinda great body who cares!

Answer 2

Don't care bout her opinion! Maybe she don't like attention on you 'cause she's fat.  

Answer 3

She is just trying to get under your skin.  Just ignore her and don't pay any attention to her whether she is with you on the beach or somewhere else.

It can only be an insult if you let it get to you..../

Answer 4

she was probably just trying to be a cool kid but she turned out looking like a jack ...  but i would not worry about her. she must not have seen what some other people wear to the beach and if she aint in shaped she has no room to talk i would just ignore her shes probably just looking for a attention.  

Answer 5

Well you said it yourself that "shes fat" so obviously shes just jealous that you have a fit body ;].

I cant really think why she would be jealous of a guy's body other than she can't have you. lol.

Also you say she is not really your friend so i wouldn't of thought she would have bothered to say that you're trying to "show your body off" if she thought you were unattractive/fat right?

So overall i think she is complementing you about your body. Nothing to be pissed off about tbh :P

If it was me and i saw an unattractive body (on a guy) i wouldnt even bother taking any notice what so ever, so she must think something of you (in a good way) :)

And noo, you shouldnt wear clothes on the beach just because of her.

If your proud of your body you should show it off as much as you like. Cause girls like me like that :):).

Hope this helps.

Answer 6

she probably just doesn't like you, but yeah she sounds very narrow minded to me

Answer 7

yep, she is

Answer 8

I think she's trying to start a conversation and tell you you look good by teasing you - but she noticed.

So go easy on her, I think she has a crush and she's nervous about coming right out about it.

~m~

Answer 9

It's kinda of hypocritical of you to say shes narrow minded when you're calling her fat, dont you think?

Answer 10

Who cares what others think!

Just do as you like. you only live once!

~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Answer 11

Dude don't sweat it.... she's just jealous cuz she's fat... look at this way... I used to be fat, and now I CAN"T WAIT to go to the beach or a pool/jacuzzi JUST so I can take my shirt off! Make the chicks drool, homie... they love confidence.

Answer 12

Just tell her that you don't care what fat people have to say about anything in general.