I was pissed off when I saw my name written on a desk and says "--g*y". What should I do?

Question

I'm so pissed off. Should I just ignore it. It's really hurtful to be said like that. Errrrr......since then I became scared coming to school...I'm sad right now....help...:(

Answer 1

is it true that you are? if you're not why ashamed of something that is not true. Just ignore it. (even if you r so what) hope u can let it go. don't show ur anger. but instead just laugh along. that shows people that you don't care and u can laugh at yourself. "When you can't beat them, you join them"

Answer 2

Not care....

Unless you are really g*y and that's why it effects you so much in which case do whatcha do with guys your age and let it go.

But yeah not caring is what you should do.

Your friends and you sound real young in which case no you really shouldnt care what theyre doing or saying because its not coming from themselves. Yes if you are an adult you shouldnt have to deal with friends calling you g*y or laughing at you behind your back but if you are not an adult a lot of friends you make can say or do things behind your back that dont really matter and that dont say anything about them so just keep that in mind at least.

Answer 3

awww dont worry,

if your g*y, dont get offended because its the truth right?

but if your not,i see why you would be offended. just keep your head up

Answer 4

scratch it out and write in girls writing next to it - hot.

Answer 5

Just tell them: "Yeah, If you say so..." and they'll  get bored because you're not reacting to their teasing.

Answer 6

if you did not do that you shoud not be shame and not afraide from ant things you shoud act people like past and try to find a matter from that person that he is afride of that matter and make him to tell the fact to evry noes and never fell unhappy and try to do all the works yourself beacuse you can help your self and the best help. ok

Answer 7

well their not your friends, or you have no sense of humor and they noticed and are going to tease you for many years to come...

Answer 8

Hit him with your purse.  (The person who sits at that desk before you)

No, seriously, if u don't pay it any mind it will die, so do not feed the idiot who had nothing better to do.  Guess where He will end up.  

You should have satisfaction from that, if u think about it.

But mainly do not react, it only feeds the beast.  Truly!

Mean Mike

Answer 9

Hi g*y

How are.. Are you a g*y... well g*y.. if This makes you g*y.. then you are a g*y..

hey.. Don't think about what other thinks .. if your closest friends teases you coz they knew... they can make u pissed off just calling you.. g*y...   Just smile it off.. don't respond... later they will feel tired calling u r nick... then they will call by your real name.. ...

don't be a disturbed person when they tease you...  forget it and forgave them its just fun.. ....you've much things on earth to think about.. be different  

Answer 10

Grow up. Get over it. Control yourself. You've allowing someone else to control your life. Is that what you want...to allow other people to control your life? Laugh about it, tell your friends that whoever did it is probably g*y and wishes you were, too. Whoever did it is obviously a coward and doesn't have the integrity to deal with you face to face.

If it's true, and you're g*y, then live with it.

Answer 11

I'd stand up to it by saying "So what if I am? So what if I'm not?" The more relaxed and non responsive you are to it the faster they'll get bored. They are just trying to get a rise out of you. So just be like 'yeah whatever, sure ok... doesn't matter, g*y.. pink elephant... who cares".  

Answer 12

You are better off pretending it doesn't bother you.....they are razzing you because it is easy laughs because it bothers you.  

Answer 13

be completely indifferent to it. seriously, the more you react the more they'll laugh at you

Answer 14

Its easier said than done, but IGNORE it and ignore ur friends too. But, every time they tease u about it, be firm and let them know that it really makes pisses u off that they're doing that. And i mean, be really serious about it to them. Let them see it in your face expression.

I think one of your friends may have put it there as a joke anyways just to see how you react. But, regardless, forget about it...Losers only do that kind of stuff. Its pretty pathetic of them.  

Answer 15

It shouldn't be offensive.

Don't take it to serious

Answer 16

WRITE UR NAME ON A DESK THAT SAYS HOTT!! USE A PINK PEN,OR SOMETHING GURLY...

Answer 17

The reason you are being teased is because you are taking it hard. Being sensitive is going to cause you to get teased. Just blow it off like nothing or like you don't care. Who cares about them.  You should only care what YOU think.

Answer 18

You shouldnt give a sh*t, When i was at school i got ragged all the time for been a L*****n, It used to get me right down. One day i thought, Why should i care..What do those people mean to me, They mean nothing, so why should their opinions mean anything?

Just get on with your life, Ignor all their stupid words and get on with your life and live how you want to live and be who you want to be, There the ones with the problem, not you.  

Answer 19

I understand this may be hard for you, being that you are still in school.

You can learn to laugh about it, because you know who you are and who cares what anyone else thinks?  I mean even if you ARE g*y, there is nothing wrong with being g*y.  Try to shrug it off or play along.  Eventually these people will get bored and move on.

Answer 20

Just ignore it and you know its not true. . . Or get revenge! :)

Answer 21

Nowadays everyone calls everyone g*y.pretend its normal and that it doesn't effect you.I don't know if you have come out yet but if you havent then yeah its better to ignore and laugh it off i guess.I really don't know how i would handle it.I only wish you the best of luck.