I was raped by my brothers best friend when i was 6 or 7 and never noticed i was raped till now....?

Question

My brothers friend came by to sleep over at hour house and he decided that he wanted to go up stairs(bro down stairs, me up stairs).

so i was in this room playing house and all the suddenly he started to play with me. and then he pretended to wrestle me when i noticed that his hands where sticking his fingers up my.... v****a....

i dont kno what to do cause i dun want to get him in trouble cause that will upset my bro :[

i havent told ANYONE about this... what should i do?

and plz dun tell me to just tell my mom or something.... thnx :x

Answer 1

Let me start by saying that it's very mature of you to talk about this and know that you need to tell someone! I know you don't want to hear it but if for whatever reason you don't want to tell your mom then you have to tell a trusted adult such as a teacher or guidance counselor because they know how to handle this situation the proper way! If you tell your brother he won't know what to do, so tell an adult instead. It's very important that you do tell because honestly if you don't, he will do this to someone else and probably will go further..you have a chance to make sure he doesn't do this to someone else like he did to you. So I beg you, please tell an adult at your school..you don't want to look back and wish you had said something!!

Answer 2

I'm not sure of the official term but it sounds more like you have been sexual assaulted or molested rather than being raped. Still I'm not making light of the incident because at that age it can still have a profound affect, you do need to discuss this with an adult, do you have access to a children's support line at least speaking with them you can remain anonymous but still receive some direction on how to handle this situation I don't think its wise for you to continue to carry this burden alone ,

Answer 3

that's not raped, that's just being molested....... you shouldn't tell a friend, they might spread it around and it will get misconstrued... tell someone you can trust....  

Answer 4

Rape is penetration. You were molested and need to tell a trusted adult not a friend.  

Answer 5

TAKE A BASEBALL BAT AND BLUNGEN HIM IN THE THE HEAD AND SAY PAPA MOA BITOTCH!!!!! NOT KIDDING SHOW DAT GOOD 4 NOTHIN ***** *** PRICK HE HAD WHATS COMING TO HIM.

Answer 6

dam that sucks if i were u id tell ur brother

if u dont want to tell ur mom

Answer 7

just everytime he comes over stay away from him and if that doesnt work talk to him about it  

Answer 8

Well if that happen tell your parents. They need to know sooner or later because they are gonna get worry about you and think something is going on with you. I think it's the right time to tell them if you want to forget about this.

Why did he do that to you?

Answer 9

Well i know it sounds weird, but how old was your brother's friend when you were raped?  If he was like 8 he probably didn't know and was curious.  I would confront your brother's friend and I know that''s difficult to do.  You can also go to counselling, or just forget about since it was in the past.