I was reading a book that said attractive people usually end up with attractive people?

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Only it said it confidently as if it were all true. I could not disagree more, all my crushes are of plain, or average women. They are so real , and so emotional, beautiful but neglected . . They have more heart and complexity to them than most of the blonde model women .

I am going to be modest , I am attractive ,

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I do not like being too high on myself or anything and I rather be with an average, but healthy woman rather than a stereotypical beauty queen.

I mean girls have given me looks, but I was always turned off esp in HS by those hot girls who have it all , but know nothing about what they have. I always fell hard for the average girls .

Anyone else feel that way?

My sociology book preaches that my mind is all wrong , and that I should like someone equally as attractive as myself. I think it trys to hard to generalize. Define attractive...

I like my women to be sincere, real, and loving , caring , these hot women think its so easy to get a guy , and it can be .

I would rather have someone plain and real than someone so painted .

I could handle being with an equally attractive woman if I loved her but as strange as it sounds I rather be with someone because it felt right, like it fit .

It just doesn't seem to be my thing to be with someone hot, it turns me off for whatever reasons. I like my women to be normal and with good personalities , or good hearts. Average women usually have such beautiful hearts.

Am I weird?

Answer 1

Oh I don't think you can, because maybe you have to be the prettier one of the two. Perhaps you are attracted more to someone whose flaws are more readily pronounced.

Never judge a hot woman by her cover.

There are many hotties who are the "whole" package.

Answer 2

OH MY GOWSH YOURE SO HOT!!!!!

OH MY GOSH!

Answer 3

Ok, I've deduced your problem.

You, yourself, are average in attractiveness.

Suddenly it all makes sense....

Answer 4

You can't say average girl there is no average.Girls are all dif and it's what you like.Yes confidence ha alot to do with it.You can be but **** ugly and have all the confidence and get a very attractive mate.Yes in alot of cases Hot girls go with guys with money and no looks.These women are not the kind you want though.So let the shallow chicks have the shallow men.A good looking girl on the inside and out is attainable if you take just as good  care of yourself.Actually  this is a loaded question.

Answer 5

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You may think the girls you have been with are "average" but to someone else they could be considered the most beautiful thing in the world.

I looked at your picture and to be honest, you are not all that. As you can see...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So you may have looked the same as your previous girlfriends.

Answer 6

LMAO dude you ugly!!! But 4real, thats a lie because i see plenty of hott girls with ugly fat guys