I was thinking of sending my ex a pic of the sonogram and write happy fathers day on it?

Question

my ex dumped me after two years of being with him when i became pregnant. now hes with a girl and i havent talked to him in 3 months.. im completly heartbroken. i know i can get him back, i know it, and i know he can be a father for my baby.. its just he told me he hopes me and the baby dies and that made me not talk to him, but he might of said that out of anger hes 18 im 16. im so excited for this baby, the best things in life are unexpected and i know ill be a great mommy, i just thought i should do something cute for fathers day... maybe mail it to him or send him it in an email, it might catch his heart ??

oh and does anyone know the exact day fathers day is!

Answer 1

i wouldnt send it to him specifically for fathers day....but i would send it to him. i sent mine to my sons father when we were broken up when i got my ultrasound to find out the s*x. we still were not speaking at that point...and i certainly was not trying to get back with him, i just wanted him to see his son. so i say send it, dont try and be all cute about it though and sounding needy, focus on your baby instead of getting back with him.

we are back together now though, he came to me....wanted to be in our sons life and wanted to be with his mother so we could all be a family. sometimes boys just need time to realize.

Answer 2

Girl, you don't need a man who won't take responsibility for his own child. He left you and now he's dating another woman because it's EASIER than having a pregnant girlfriend. In my opinion, you are far better off without him. I know it's hard being so young and a single mother, but honestly, nothing can catch a man's heart once he's made up his mind.

Legally, he should be doing something to support the baby. Monetarily, whatever.

See if he calls on father's day, then you'll know how much he cares. What did he do for you on mother's day? Maybe send him a pic when the baby is born, but for now, focus on you and your baby's health and happiness and you'll both be happier people with eachother. You don't need any negative influence in your life right now.

Congratulations on your little bundle of joy! I know you'll make it through ok. :)

Answer 3

sounds kinda vicious, but he deserves it. Fathers day is on the 15th.

maybe send one to the new girl friend too. let her know what shes getting into.

Answer 4

fathers days is sunday the 15th.

Answer 5

Wow he sounds really messed up. Honestly with how he treats you, would you really want the around your child? Father's Day is the 15th. Think bout what your doing!

What if he tells your son or daughter. I hope you die! How would that make you feel? Do you really want him around? Don't be so desperate if he loved you, he wouldn't be doing this.

Answer 6

i would send it to his mom and ask her to give it to him

Answer 7

I say do it! Mail it to him, not to be spiteful, but to be truthful. It would be a great way to really ope his eyes!

Answer 8

I would just stay clear of him... honestly, once a man says that about you or your child...it is time to just stay away!! Your main concern needs to be your baby and that is not an influence that you would want around your child period.  I would want to be an evil b**** and I would have called the police and reported it as a death threat, got a restraining order and made sure that he didn't see my child period.  (I know it may be because I have all these hormones and I am pregnant, but I don't think I would ever want someone like that around my baby)

Answer 9

Yes Father's Day is the 15th of June.

I don't think you should give him the time of day much less a pic of the sonogram. He gave up on you! Hopefully with the help of your family, you will raise this baby and be a great mom! I think you should let him do what he is doing and stay away.

No matter how angry a person is, to wish death on anyone is disgusting. You don't need him. You will eventually find someone who loves you no matter what.

You just carry on like you have been and take care of yourself. He will have to pay child support when the baby is born and then maybe he will wish he stayed with you.

Let him go.

Answer 10

i will get thumbed down for this, but why the h**l would you want him back, if he wants you and the baby to die. this isnt the kind of man you want in your and your babies life.

and it is the 15th.

also you would be sinking to his level being so vindictive.

Answer 11

Fathers day is Sunday the 15th.

What makes you think that he'll stick with you when he's already walked out on you once?  I wouldn't waste my time trying to get him back.  Why bother-he's already gotten someone pregnant and then abandoned them-doesn't sound like a stand up guy to me.

Focus on yourself and this child-move on to someone who deserves you.