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My auntie is 25 and she wants to be in the company (if you know what I mean) with her pastor of 60 years old and her bible study teacher 61. Now she wants to be with her therapist of 48. She told me she had crushes on older men since she was very young - like unbelievably young. She can't stop thinking of older men that way. Then she had a job interview with a cute older man in his 50's and she was flirting with him and all he kept saying was she reminded him of his daughter. So her flirts didn't work. What do you think of her liking older men? She doesn't care about ones her own age. Any comments?

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  1. it could be "daddy issues" - she's looking for love / affection from a father type figure.  

    sometimes this stems from sexual abuse, but that is not always the "cause".  some girls just crave affection (and sometimes discipline) from a father figure.


  2. LOL!  You know, I'm an older guy now (not 60 yet, quite) and I find that young girls seem to like me better now than girls that age liked me when I was that age myself.  I don't know what it is.  I have more 20-year-old girls flirting with me now than I did 30 years ago.  I always thought they just figured I was harmless.

    It's not -sick- or anything that she likes her pastor and bible teacher.  I think it's kind of sweet in a way.  But you must know, and she must know too, at some level, that she's flirting with disaster.  Any of these guys, pastor, bible teacher, therapist, she could end up losing them their jobs.  Look at all the trouble Monica Lewinsky caused with her fixation on older guys.  Think she loved him?  I sure don't think so.

  3. she has a creepy fetish for old men

  4. To like an older man is definitely not a problem. But to like all older mens' company at a time  is definitely a problem.  

  5. If her dad was alot older than her mom or she was sexually abused growing then that could be it.

    If neither are true, then well whatever floats her boat I guess.

    Not much more to comment on. XD
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