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I will be getting married in two months I am not feeling very friendly with my fiance?

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I loved a guy from another caste but he wasnt ready to marry as he was scared of his parents ..I am not able to forget my past :(

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what are you doing
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You really shouldn't marry this guy if you are having these sorts of thoughts. Sounds like you are just settling and your heart is elsewhere. Believe me, marrying him is NOT the answer. It won't make it all better.
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One should not forget his/her past so easily.

naturally it wll take time. It has not happened or going to happen for the first time ...

AAndian aati hai, patte ud jaate hain aur ped khare rehte hain.
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I wouldn't get married right away.. Also i know its nice to make people around you happy, but its your life and you need to do what makes you happy. If your family loves you they will accept your decision and accept anyone you really love. Just don't make the mistake of marrying to make others happy or you will be miserable.
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well dont for you to be putting it on the net must mean you have serious problems [dont marry stay friends or end the thing]dont move from a small mistake to a grand slam
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Take any decision, but fast

Its not only urs but the other person's life too
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IF YOU REALY DONT WANT TO SPOIL YOUR FIANCES LIFE THEN TELL HIM ABOUT YOUR PAST IT IS BETTER TO TELL KNOW THEN KNOWING FROM OTHERS AFTER MARRIAGE IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE. IF HE LOVE YOU HE WILL FORGIVE YOU OTHER WISE TRY FOR NEXT. MARRIED LIFE STANDS ON TRUTH IF BASE IS GOOD LIFE GOES SMOUTHLY

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you can take the inititae to talk to his parents.I am sure they would accept a bold lady as their daughter-in law.
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You don't mention what country you live in. If you are still living in India or Pakistan then your parents can exert more control over you in pressuring you to marry against your will. If you are living in the UK or USA, then you have more freedom to break off this engagement and forge a more authentic life for yourself. If you don't love this person, then don't marry him. You'll spend your married life in a distracted state because you haven't gotten over the guy from the different caste. Good Luck!
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you can always your mind and marry me
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Delay the marriage. You are not ready.
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It is normal to have second and third thoughts right before your wedding day. It's also normal for the stress of the whole thing to cause you to feel not as loving toward your spouse to be. My husband and I argued like crazy for the two months before our wedding. He's a procrastinator and I'm a planner. (CLASH) We'd be out and I'd ask him to stop and pick up bird seed for the wedding and he'd say, "Let's do that tomorrow." At last the day before the wedding I asked him to stop and get the bird seed and he said, "Later", and I totally BLEW a gasket. I yelled at him, "THE WEDDING IS TOMORROW!!!!!!!!! STOP AND GET THE BIRD SEED RIGHT THIS MINUTE!!!!!!" I just totally freaked out on him. I was ready to call the whole thing off. But we got through it and have been very happily married for 15 years now (I think it's 15)
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Get some consoling before you get married
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if he is not ready to marry you then he is not at all your lover, dont wait for him, the person who scared will never give you happiness in your life, just forget your past as you did mistake to select a guy.

and afterall you have to marry a guy in your life then why not this guy for which your parents have selected and if you dont want to marry just stay alone but dont tell that you cant forget your past.

and i think you have to be 100% satisfied before you get married, or your life as well as your would be life will spoil, just tell them no if you are not interested or if you need sometime. But if you are going to marry then be happy for everything and have a wonderfull life with your hubby.

good luck :))

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"That which takes you closer to God is the right thing to do"

There is only one reason for marriage that is love if thats not there do not do it.

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Do not marry him. Check me out first.
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Either delay the marriage or get out because your not ready!!
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then get out now

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I really appreciate your concern for your parents .

but ,dear it's your life .

DELAY YOUR MARRIAGE.

I understand the fact that it won't be easy.

but ,talk to your fiance about it .

you are not ready for it.

he may not be the one whom u love at this point of time.but , he may be loving u already.

pour your heart out to him .

don't be afraid of anything .

you are about to share your entire life with him, so come'on go ahead ,and tell him everything .

TALK TO HIM

PLEASE.

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