I wonder what he'd do?

Question

Wrong category, I know. Hypothetical situation :) Let's say you're a guy in your mid 20's. You're engaged to a woman who you've had an on-again, off-again relationship with for 3 years. You're friends with the married couple next door and you guys hang out all the time, as couples. The guy next door is cool and you're friends with him. The woman is cute, kinda hot, and friendly. You find yourself getting attracted to her and you think she's kind of into you too, there may even be a possibility of a one-night fling. But you can't tell anyone out of fear that your fiance or her husband will find out. But you just can't help yourself. You want to flirt and let her know you have some feelings for her. How would you do it? How would you flirt but be sneaky about it?

*PLEASE* I'm not asking for personal opinions about the situation or what you think is right or wrong. Those kinds of answers will get reported. I really would just like my question answered. If you can't answer the actual question (How would you flirt but be sneaky about it?), don't even bother posting a comment. Thank you.

Answer 1

well, I see you're an expert on photography, so maybe you suggest a photoshoot, and you can go from there. Maybe involve some wine...

Answer 2

Don't do IT!!! Don't Cheat! But hypothetically speaking, just flirt. That's what flirting is. Sneaky little things that build sexual tension.

Answer 3

That's really a difficult question to answer.

I guess I'd bring up the subject of s*x or wait for the subject of s*x to come up and let her know you'd do it with another girl if you had feelings for her and if she wanted to try it too.

Or, you could just sort of mention you'd be curious to find out what its like to be with another girl.

Be careful though, you just might be playing with fire, but who really knows until you ask, right?

Good luck

Answer 4

call her maybe or tell her that her husband is a very lucky guy

Answer 5

DAM R U WRITTING A SCRIPT FOR DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES? HAHA

obviously hunny your not ready to get married.your still young and havent experianced everything you wouldve liked to.dont commit to something so big and later on regret it. maybe move if possible to start a new beginning. if you have a finance but are still thinking about another woman.the pieces just dont fit together. its time to choose sides.

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Answer 6

i would like tell her how u feel  

Answer 7

i wouldn't think that, i may think she's hot, but i'd have no reason to think she's that way

Answer 8

All I'm going to say is that if we play with fire, we're likely to get burned.

I've seen people I know try to do exactly what you've described, only for it to blow up on them in the worst possible way, e.g., the person with whom we're flirtiing gets pregnant (by us), the other partner(s) find out, a relationship or marriage ends, etc.

Caveat emptor.

Answer 9

He may not be as upset as you think.  He may want to get in on it.  I'm only saying that based on your on and off again for three years.  You don't know how she will react.  What if a one night stand is not enough for her?  Next time you guys are together, just tell her that you would like to hang with just her one time without the boys.  I hope this helped you, just be careful.  You might get what you asked for.  

Answer 10

if thats the case then when i hang with them ill wait patiencelly to get her alone with me or find some kind of pretext to go with her somelace alone, then just indirectly flirt or just make some kind of eye contact. after the eyecontact if she looks at me back ill take that as she want something with me, then ill go for level 2 flirt, that is touch. ill touch her descreatly but good enough to get her to feel my touch. after that ill see how she reacts and if she reacts ill go increasing the touch, and if she gets to the point i can grab and she wants me then the one night fling will happen. But most of the time one night flings dont happen, mostly many nights of pation

hope that answer ur question adn really hope u are not asking that cause u fill ur husband is cheating on u