I wonder what will happen when my parents pass away ? it freaks me!?

Question

why do i even think this? am i normal?

Answer 1

you are absolutely normal sometimes when i think of that i would start crying T.T

Answer 2

Don't think about this. Enjoy their company, as long as they are with you.

Answer 3

barley stop thinking these thoughts and think about the nice things u will di wid ya parents in the future.u need to change ya methods of thinking.as soon as u start thinking bad thoughts then think of something very positive or something u did wid ya parents.i think wat it is u r jus thinking wat will life be like widout them.u rnt doing yaself any favours thinking like dis.its depressing u and everything will start to get u down and on top of u.plan things wid ya parents wat u wud like to do.live life and enjoy hun.god doesnt want u worrying about death.dats not his plan.hes given u a great life and u must live it positively otherwise u wont get anywhere in life.jus take ya days one day at a time.i dont think ya parents wud be happy if they knew u were having such bad thoughts,it wud get them down wudnt it now.plse be happy and wid ya parents to.nuff love.pinksssssss

Answer 4

this question is a normal qn.inspite of this  truth the life will not stop.they have to go ,and you have to also go,everyone have to go.

don"t desperate .if you want to live more do good work for others.  

Answer 5

Hi Thinking like this is very normal, I use to think the same its part of life, its also very scary to think of a life without your parents in it, but the time will come when the un mentionable happens it will hurt you but somehow you find the strength to go on, its hard. Ive just lost my Mum it hurt like h**l and still does, but your get over it as life goes on.

Answer 6

How old are you?  That makes all the difference.  Until a certain age (which varies from person-to-person), you're attached to them and dependent on them.  Becoming an adult is (in part) the process of separating from them -- not completely, but so that they have a different status in your life -- less like parents, and more like equals.  By the time you become independent, you're much more able to accept and deal with, their INEVITABLE death.  Of course it will affect you, but not in the profound, existential way you seem to be thinking.

Answer 7

I've faced this twice, the first time when I was 16. Of course everyone reacts to tragedy in a different way. From a psychological standpoint, when we are faced with great pain such as losing a loved one, our bodies go into shock. Shock tends to insulate us (that's why it's important never to make important decisions during this time, like selling a home, etc.) We do get through it. If you are an adult and the only surviving child, you will be responsible for arrangements, notifications, insurance etc. This aspect is overwhelming when you are grieving. Perhaps while your parents are lucid, able to have this conversation, ask what their preferences are. Ask them to make a folder indicating where important papers, wills etc., may be found.

Then appreciate, validate, and enjoy your time with them.

Yes you're normal to have these concerns.

Where it would become abnormal would be if your concernss prevent you from going about your life in a happy successful manner. And I guarantee you, when the time comes, while it will be sad, there will be people to support you and get you through it.

Answer 8

Dont worry buddy even my father had passed away, but before that happens,  make yourself financially strong by working hard and earning lot of money. Make your bank balance strong if you could and if you have any helping hand do behave in a proper way and never get disheartened.Make others happy then other will aslo help you. please tell me something about yourself more.

Answer 9

Stop thinking yaar ... be positive and enjoy ur life

plz smile dear i will ur absolutly normal

take care:-)

Answer 10

Yes you are normal.  My Mom passed in Dec. of 06.

My Wife passed in Jan. of 07.

My Dad passed in July of 07.

The one that bothered me the most was my Wife's.

They all will get to you.but i think your spouses death hurts more.

Answer 11

Join the club!! Sometimes I think about it and I"m really scared cause if they pass way, I'd have no where to go

Answer 12

Everyone's parents pass away, and we all think about it. Our parents think about what will happen to us when they pass away. I lost my parents when I was young. The only thing I can say is this: Love your parents. Even if they have messed up and made mistakes, they are only human and everyone makes mistakes. They have done the best they can, the only way they know how. Respect them. They did bear you and give you life. They struggled and worried, cried and laughed, and love you. No matter how your relationship is with them, they love you. It is a huge responsibility and a lifelong commitment to have children. My dad passed away first, and I was devastated. It was a huge blow to me, and I was just 15, when girls need their dad the most. Just remember they aren't gone forever and you can still talk to them through prayers. Don't dwell on tommorrow, enjoy them today. Make a point to have some good memories of them. Encourage them to live healthy lives because you want them to be around for a long time. :)