I work and try very hard yet I fail at everything. work, girlfriend. I am just too tired to keep going.?

Question

I work and try very hard yet I fail at everything. work, girlfriend. I am just too tired to keep going.?

Answer 1

I used to feel the same way and then i started looking at everything in a positive light.I gave all my problems to god and just believed in myself.If you give up you will fail but if you put your all into what you are trying to achieve you will make it.Trust me

Answer 2

Keep trying...Edison failed like10,000 times before he got light.  Focus on the small things that make you happy, remember that every day is a new day, a new start to the path you choose, you can change it at anytime.  Redefine failure too...the fact that you keep trodding along speaks for itself.  As for the girlfriend, well, she was just another girl until you find the one.  If she left you for somebody else, well, now she's their problem and she'll do the same thing until she gets it.  More fish in the sea and each one teaches us something...what not to do, what kind of girl to not go out with, and a realization that some girls are just mean dude. uhhh...and when all else fails, help others...it might be holding the door, or volunteering but when you help others, especially those who have challenges you and I couldn't even imaging, it redefines our focus and makes us appreciate what we do have.  Man that was a mouthful but, you hit a nerve.  I felt the same way for quite some time until I worked on myself.  Now I'm married to a great girl, baby girl sleeping in the other room...life can be good when we give it a chance.

Answer 3

You cannot fail at everything. Maybe you need to look at things in a different perspective. Distance yourself from the situation and you will be able to assess more objectively.

Before, I also thought of myself like that. But then the foremost that you should do is know yourself well (who you are and what you are) and know what you want. If it seems impossible to be in the situations you want to be in, don't despair. There are many situations that we are in that we don't have any choice of. However, we can choose to be the best of what we can be in that situation.

Answer 4

All I can say is JUST DON'T GO EMO! PLEASE!