I would like some Advice on my EX who I care for alot..?

Question

Back in May, my GF of 1.5 years broke up with me. She told me she was not IN LOVE with me anymore, and didn't feel the Romance and Passion toward me anymore, and could barely kiss me. This is after she fell head over heels with me and called me all day long and we were soo in Love. Since May we have had limited contact, she would call here and there and I would always pick up, and then she would become distant again. Then my friends said to back away so i didnt answer her last call, after always picking up before that. This was a month ago. I just wrote on her facebook that i ran into a place we used to go, and say hi to your new dog. She wrote me back "are you gonna blow off my dog like you did to me after trying to say hi.....I have no idea what she is talking about. Should I respond? I still miss her like crazy and everyone said totally no contact to make her think....whats my move now?? Am I wrong for not answering her call and calling back (didnt leave a message) after Always being there for her??

Answer 1

Clearly this girl just likes to be the boss she wants you to be there when ever she wants yet she doesn't want to be there for you. You must have friends who care about you and don't like to see you being taken advantage of. I wouldn't sweat this girl she is petty and playing games. If she cares she will realize her mistake and pursue you.

Answer 2

how much clearer can something be for a person to tell u she isn't in love with u.it usually means she has someone she is in love with,i wouldn't contact her,or answer her calls, what for?why invest more in something where u have been told your not loved.

Answer 3

Don't torture yourself. She doesn't love you so ahve your soace if you need to and ignore her manipulation

Answer 4

SHE COULD BE SEEING SOMEONE ELSE AND DOESNT KNOW HOW TO SAY SHE DOESNT WANT TO BE WITH YOU ANYMORE.

I CANT SEE HOW U CAN FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH SOMEONE AND STILL BE WITH THEM.ANYWAYS,..I GUESS NOW THAT YOUR NOT ANSWERING HER CALLS THIS IS HER EXCUSE TO START AN ARGUMENT SHES BEEN WANTING TO START FOR SO LONG.

SOMETIMES ITS BEST TO LET LOVE GO AND MOVE ON.