I would like to ask a question to all women/girls out there . .?

Question

Hey everyone! I've got this burning question inside me and i gotta ask someone and get a woman's perspective on this matter. I know many off your out there have been approached by guys at a mall or at school to maybe get your number. I wanna know what these guys asked you, and i would love to find out if a guy like me walked up to a girl like you, what should i say or ask you to get your attention? I'm somewhat shy, and i wanna know what to say to a girl I've never meet, but wanna get to know. I hope my question makes sence . . hope to read what feed-back I get, thank you ladies!

Answer 1

Haha, that's so cute! Well, most girls would be flattered for a random guy to come up and ask for their number, but there are certain guide lines when talking to a girl you've never met. First, no cheesy pick-up lines, do not act like a pig, and do not over compliment on her looks. Most of all, just be yourself, if your shy- that's okay, girls will find it cute!

Just say go up and say 'Hi' if she totally blows you off, don't worry about it, you don't want to get to know a girl like that. But if she giggles (or laughs) and says hi back then just keep up the conversation. It will all come naturally once you get started, the hardest part will be gaining the courage to actually approch the girl!

Hope I helped :]

Answer 2

Casually walk by and say "hey" with a grin...  If she smiles back,  thats your way in!

Head over and ask her out for a coffee or something..  Even if your not, act confident, but not coc ky...

Confidence is HUGE!!  

Dont be shy! and dont hold back.. Whats the worst you will hear? no?  Thats NOTHING... No's are bound to happen!!

Its better to try and not suceed, then to wonder, WHAT IF?!?

Answer 3

it's always nerve racking to ask some one out when you've only met them once, especially if you're a shy person!!

there are three things you wanna find out about some one before you ask them on a date

are they single?, what their name is?, and if they kinda like you too?

but you shouldn't make it like a q and a session with Barbra walters instead you should incorporate these questions in a few simple sentences and let the conversation flow. here's an example i came up with for a guy who asked a similar type of question

you should first approach the girl and say some thing like "Excuse me!, hi, do you have a boy friend?",(don't just ask it plain and dull but have a curious tone in your voice and try to shake her hand softly when you say hi)........and she'll hopefully say "no" and then you say "really!, oh, 'cause i think you're really cute,(pause with a sweet smile) my name is ***** and you are?"..........and she'll probably say some thing like "i'm candy, nice to meet you *****", so then you'll say, "so candy, that's a beautiful name by the way, would you like to go get some ice cream or some thing with me some time?"......and she'll definetly say " ofcourse, i love ice cream!" and that's how you get yourself a date. but be sure to ask for her phone number after wards or set the time and place don't just say "great, see you soon" and forget about the rest of the convo. plus i just randomly came up with that conversation and it may not be appropriate in your situation but you can come up with something similar.

oh and have confidence,confidence,confidence

breath deep and relax and stand up strait before you even walk up to a girl. and when you talk to her make sure your body language doesn't say "i know you're probably not gonna say yes",  cuz she will.

good luck!!!

Answer 4

well for sure dont just go up to a girl and randomly ask for her number, that just makes u look like a jerk. I f its at the mall u could follow her into a store(i know stalker-ISH but ya lol) andd walk by her when shes looking at clothes and say something like "that would look great on you". TRUST ME, A conversation can come from just that. after that u will know what to say. ...

lol THEN u can ask for her number or email W.E.  make sure u get her name or that would be rude:)

good luck.:P

Answer 5

complement her then back off, id totally go talk to that guy more if he were cute

Answer 6

I've never been approached by a guy, but my friend has and generally if they do it in a non-creepy way I think it would be somewhat flattering. Umm, if you're in a store you could look at the same thing she's looking at and voice your opinion...or if you're at the food court perhaps you could just sit next to her (if you're feeling daring).

I think my HS friends were approached by guys that just casually started a conversation as they walked around a store, talking about their schools or something.