I wouldnt trade my mom for anything in the entier world...?

Question

but my sister hates her i dont get it see me and my mom are close because i have and pylonidal disease since i was 12 and she had to take care of me be my nurse lol change my bandages after surgery get big macs at midnight ne way lol me and her bonded a lot because of it and even though this disease has taken so much from me i wouldn't change it because of the great relationship and strength i have gotten out of it and my sister thinks that my mom is an evil woman that wants to ruin her life just because my mom doesn't like my sisters boy friend because he hits her and cheats on her HELLO i dont see the evil part lol why is it my sister hates her so much gosh this is more of me venting on you guys then an actual question and i am sorry for that its just sometimes you need to let it all out you know

Answer 1

Your Mom sounds like a wonderful woman.  Your sister sounds like she needs to feel like she is loved and taken care of.  I wouldn't make your sister choose between the bf and you.  You need to be there if she comes to her senses and needs to talk or a hug.  

Answer 2

Your sister needs help if she is still dating a boy that hits her and cheats on her.  She is asking for trouble and she will get it.

You didn't say how old your sister is.  She must be of age if she moved away from home.  If so, there is not anything you or your mother can do.

She will have to learn this lesson by herself.

Answer 3

Haha. I like to vent my anger too in questions... I helps...

Yea... I think its fair for you to say 'its me or him' but by the sounds of her, she is likely to just say him...

I honestly just think she is envious of the relationship you and your mum have... If your mum is as nice as you say she is, there is like no reason for her to hate ur mum...

Maybe she is just one of those kids who never really got along with their parents? Or she disagrees with your mum for doing the things a parent should do...?

I dont really know but i would just let her be... Shell grow up one day and realise how stupid she has been...

Trying to fix things may only be pushing her further away...

Answer 4

Dont' tell your sister to chose, because she will chose wrong. Please, be supportive to her, and tell her that whenever, and if she ever feels like coming home- that all of you are going to accept her.

Because your mom had to take care of her, she neglected your sister, and now your sister is finding that lack of affection in an abusive relationship. Soon it will end bad, and she will need to come home  and she needs to know that she will be welcomed back.

Answer 5

shoot! i would i hate my mom!!! all she ever does is bitc* at me or tell me to do stupid things that doesnt even help me!!! my dad is a whole different story! he's more of a mom and a dad to me! weird eh?