IF YOU married a man?

Question

that had 3 previous wives...he was married 3 times before...Do you think he would bring the same problems (cheating, lying, gambling issues, disappearing money..etc.) Do you think those same problems would exist in the 4th marriage? He ran off with a younger woman and now has "settled down" with his 4th wife. Do you think the "new" wife faces some of those issues? He is getting older..slowing down? Just looking for opinions, please...Do you think new wife is dealing with the old mess???

Answer 1

Of course she's dealing with the same old mess; that's his hobby. Marriage #4 is doomed just like the rest.

Answer 2

Well maybe he is going to change for the better because he is getting older and well maybe he learned his lesson from the past.  He may think that the 4rth one will be better of the three, no offense.  It seems he is looking for something that we could understand.  With the words he is happy well maybe he find it to the 4rth one.  Let's give him a break.  He deserve to be happy too. Anyway he is getting older. Life for him is shorten. lol I understand what you feel.  You are worried of him or you still care for him.  You are adorable ex and I will hug you for that. ( HUG}

Answer 3

Same ole, same ole...

Answer 4

do me a favor go have a cup of coffee so that you can wake up and when you did read this that you call a question ?

i mean really you fooling yourself thinking that it would work - and if you go thru with it you deserve what you going to get - the saying goes - glutton for punishment -

so wake up and smell the coffee this 2008 i mean really know  

Answer 5

Probably. He seems to be a slow learner or just someone who will never change. A liar, cheater and a gambler rarely change with age.  

Answer 6

This wife is in for a ride with this doozy of a guy! Sounds like he is a bit egotistical to stay with anyone but himself!

Answer 7

If he wants to change, he will. Another person (wife) couldn't change him.

If I were in your (?) shoes here's what I would ask myself: Do I love him? Yes. Do I want to try and see if we can live happily ever after? Yes. Can I get a divorce if even though he tried, he cannot change? Yes.

Then I would go for it and try to enjoy life together.

Answer 8

WOW

Maybe, if you're lucky, he's slowed down&

hopefully stopped!

But we are "creatures of habit"!

good luck

Answer 9

He obviously has had his share of losses in the marriage department. To me, it would be impossible to live his life and it not carry over to whom you truly are.  But, people treat other's differently because the others are different to.  It's a gamble.  The man may have age and is really ready to start clean.  

Answer 10

Absolutely!  This guy isn't coming into his 4th marriage with a little baggage.  He's towing a U-haul behind.

I hope she's a patient woman with a PhD in human behavioral psychology because she's going to need it.

His name isn't Henry is it?  As in Henry the VIII?

Answer 11

well yes... there are chances that a man might have improved after breaking of 1st marriage but if not... well he is a pig onn just to waste others life...