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Question

THE BABY WAS PLANNED. THEN ME AND MY BOYFRIEND END UP BREAKING UP BECAUSE OF SOME NON SENSE . WE KEPT OR DISTANCE BUT NOW HE JUST HATES ME AND HE HAVE A GIRLFRIEND BUT I THINK HES JUST TRYING TO THROW HER IN MY FACE . THEN WHEN I CALL HIM HE DOESNT ANSWER AND WHEN HE DOES HE SAYS FOR ME TO GET CHILD SUPPORT ON HIM AND FOR ME TO NEVER CALL HIM AGAIN CAUSE HE DONT WANT TO HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ME OR HER. WITCH ISNT FAIR TO HER CAUSE SHE DIDNT DO NOTHING TO HIM BUT NEITHER HAVE I. WE GOT INTO BIG SITUATION BUT IT ALL HIS FAULT. AND ITS LIKE d**n IM PREGNANT ABOUT TO BE DUE AND I DONT EVEN WANT TO BE PREGNANT NO MORE

Answer 1

Grow up, honestly it's not "all his fault" a relationship takes two people, and so does making a baby.

Next time make sure all the papers are signed and the ring is on your finger before trying to have another.

Answer 2

When that baby comes out you will love him/her no matter what.  Your situation isn't pretty but a baby is the greatest blessing you will ever know.  At least he is saying that he is going to pay child support.  All moms have second thoughts at the end of pregnancy but trust me you little one will be the best thing you ever have in your life!!!

Answer 3

Wow, your an idiot.

Answer 4

Don't get any more upset right now.

The h**l with him let the courts go after him and you take care of you and the baby be careful who you pick out to get pregnant from after this.

Answer 5

So you only want the baby if some deadbeat boyfriend gets back with you?

It isn't fair to her that NEITHER of her parents want her anymore. It isn't fair to her that both of her parents were too immature for a child when they conceived her. It isn't fair to her at all.

Answer 6

You need to try and calm down.. Stress is not good for your baby.

Second of all your ex boyfriend is just being stupid! Ignore him! I am sure that you will find another guy that would be nice enough to take care of you and your baby.. I am guessing a girl. I am sure your baby will be very cute. You may have second thoughts now but once you have the baby it may be the best day of your life! Besides that baby is your partner it goes with you everywhere and keeps you company.. so if you ever feel alone just remember that your baby is there. Good luck.. =)

Answer 7

How can you say u don't want to be pregnant anymore?? That is a little innocent baby in there and it sounds like its mam and dad don't want it. I had a micarriage recently and i'd have done anything to keep my baby. I understand you are hurting but taking it out on your unborn child is wrong. You don't realise how lucky you are to be having a healthy baby.

Answer 8

This should teach you to never make life decisions based on your emotions.  You made the decision to get pregnant.  The child did not ask to come into this world.  The best thing you can do is move on and love your child and learn from this experience.  Best wishes