IM MIGHT GET IN A FiGHT IN SCHOOL Today?

Question

guess he some type of gang member or watever and al lthe girls in the class like him but in sixth grade he was always trying to tease me he never put his hands on me but he was just talking about phyiscal features and what not he is always getting in fights with people but he transfered out of the class now im in eighth grade and his transfering back all the girls are like extra happy and stuff to see him so he has a huge ego problem and if he tries to make me look like a punk in front of all all the girls what should i do ?/ telling the teacher is not an option

Answer 1

knock him out

Answer 2

just tell him to get some friends and p*ss off and stop bothering you

its the only way

Answer 3

stick upto him - if he tries anything then just tell him to f*** off and get a life. i went to a school with people just like that - and he wont leave off you unless you stick up to him. Whether you get a punch back for answering back to him or not - atleast you'll go down trying. plus he will respect you for sticking upto him even he doesnt say it - plus it will decrease his ego majorly if someone sticks upto him. good luck

Answer 4

all you hav e to do is get in his face. tell him to back the f*** off. if he says anything to you just jump in his face and raise your voice real loud. make your eyes real big like your crazy and pi$$ed. say "what the f*** did you just say punk." then say "say that one more time. i f***ing dare you to say it again b****. i'll punch you right in the face. say it again." the whole time you need to look mean and like your not scared to punch him. i guarantee he will back off and yu will completely avoid a fight. if possible say it a little bit away from a teacher. then by the time your done a teacher will have come and broen t up and you will look mad tough for standing up to him and getting ready to punch him. just be sure you are prepared for a fight if you need to.

Answer 5

I'd have to disagree with a lot of the replies.  I think when people think of bullies, they think of some overconfident brat who likes to pick on nerds.  Usually a suburban school where the bully is the popular kid, minor juvenile, or physically matured faster than the other boys.  With these guys, they'll leave you alone if you tell an authority figure or stand your ground.

But if he's a real gangster, there's no way you can stand up to him and expect him to back down.  In my old school, if a gangster backed down, he'll be jumped or killed out of his gang.  If you stand up to him, expect a fight or he probably was never in a real gang.  If you tell authorities, he is definately not going to forget it.  Best bet would be a fight.  I might even let him win, but not lose horribly so he does not retaliate with a weapon.  Just a good fight so he leaves you alone afterwards and still maintain some sort of respect for yourself.

Answer 6

seriously just fight him.  if u're only in 8th grade then just fight...worst thing that can happen is slap on wrist.  if he's bigger than you, grab his collar, stay close to his body, and head butt him like 10x.  easy win.  i've done it countless times.

if you think u'll lose badly and lose a lot of respect from classmates...i'd probably do something crazy to win alittle more respect than just getting beat down senseless.  i would stare him down during class to get his attention, cuss him out, and jumping him during class in front of the teacher.  this way you seem "down" and u won't get beat down too badly to have people laugh at you.  maybe even do it twice in one day if you don't get sent home.  worst that can happen is parent teacher meeting and suspension.  if u get kicked out...who cares...it's jr high.  no one cares...not even future colleges.

i wouldn't go after him with a pipe or anything after school.  he'll retaliate for sure.  there's usually no retaliation during school fist fights.  a lot of times, they just end up being friends or at least have alittle more respect for each other.

try to figure out what his gang is like too.  if it's some bs crew...than jump him.  if they actually gang bang (shoot people instead of just fist fighting)...u might want to just ignore him for the rest of the year.

i use to be a nerd until early high school.  most of my old friends were gangsters and now half of them are locked up.  so i've been in u're situation before and kno alittle of how gangsters act.  don't let people scare you into thinking that fighting this one time will lead to a life of crime.  i was a high school drop out, blah blah, but ended up graduating at one of the best colleges and have a great job.  most of my friends have similar stories.  just don't take it too far.

no matter how ugly u might be...at this young of an age...girls like rebels.  fight back and don't punk out and maybe u'll have a few girls coming u're way too.  and maybe that reputation will follow u into high school

Answer 7

Cunsult a trusted adult, perhaps a parent or legal gaurdian. You are probably aginst it, but it will do you good in the long run. If you don't act now, you can become seriously injured. Fights are not games, they are dangerous and if preventable, prevent them.

Answer 8

Hey Art:

I'm sorry that you find yourself in this awkward and difficult situation.  This guy is obviously a bully and he has made you the victim.  As long as you run from this guy you will be bullied by him.  How to handle a bully?  Don't get into a conflict (fight) with him if his friends are with him.  

The bully needs an audience. Therefore, bulling primarily occurs on school grounds and is played out in front of a group. Lunchrooms,  playgrounds, hallways, locker rooms, and bathrooms are prime areas  for confrontation.

There are many websites that deal with "Bulling".  It is a complicated process and I think you'll need help from an adult to learn how to deal with this guy.

You need to learn:

1.  How to walk with confidence and hold your head up.

2.  Make eye to eye contact with the bully.

3. How to answer the bully's comments with wit and confidence.  A confident, resourceful person who has friends is less likely to be bullied or to bully others.

4.  How to resolve arguments without violent words or actions.

5.  How to walk confidently, stay alert to what's going on around them and to stand up for themselves verbally.

I personally detest bulling.  I wish you well!

Good Luck!

Answer 9

laceper pretty much has it covered, most bullies cant handle being stood up to  good luck :)

Answer 10

ok this is what you dont do, dont just walk away or something if he disses you, and also dont attack him like a bull. if i were u i would just diss him back, but i wouldnt try to get into a fight so ull like get in trouble with the principals nd stuff. another option is to jus go to him after skool nd tell him to stop sayin whatever he says bout u.