IS REVENGE NORMAL???

Question

Is it normal to want revenge after you have been wronged if you can't forgive and forget???

Answer 1

I would not say normal but it's very human.

It's take time for some people to calm down anger and forget the bad memory. But as far as I see revenge is not gonna undo the wronged but it's merely add another wrong in order to try to make it balance and satisfied the anger. Once revenge fulfilled another revenge from the opponent could be performed and it will become circle of evil.

If you are angry soo bad, soo bad and want to revenge soo bad, than, make sure you wipe out completely all root of potential revenge of your opponent that could arise in the future (family, relative, ally, etc).

Some wrong doing some times is not done in purpose or it's done as last option of selfishness like "If I don't do this I am the one ****-up, so I do this even it will make you ****-up" in which also very human.

Embrance on Wisdom and Understanding I think is the best option.

Answer 2

If you don't get revenge one way you'll get it subconsciously another way. It's not just normal, it's a fact!

Answer 3

yes, it is normal. causes problems but makes you feel good for a little while.

haha.

Answer 4

Yes, revenge and jealousy are very normal. Acting on dangerous urges are not, so just stick to the scheming. :)

Answer 5

Thinking about it - I think so.  

It's not normal to TAKE action to get revenge - then you are out of control.    

We all have to learn to forgive and forget or go nuts - simple truth.

Answer 6

revenge can be sweet, but before you take revenge make sure of these things...

1. you are not being a hypocrite

2. you have a legitimate reason to act on your anger

3. you are not messing with someone who could REALLY get you back

4. you don't want to make the person kill themselves. consider possibilities.

5. make sure you can handle the person crying angry blah blah blah

Answer 7

Yes, it is normal. Just know that the actions you take in an attempt at revenge will also have consequences.

Answer 8

revenge is common but certainly not normal, just like abuse is common but not normal get it,someone hit your car  and you cant forgive them so you go out and hit back their car do you consider it normal i guess not

Answer 9

you silly goose...

:P

ok course :)

but if ur planning revenge make sure it doesn't hurt them

:DD

Answer 10

well duh revenge is normal..

silly :p

Answer 11

Unfortunately, yes. However it is a base emotional response that should be worded at to overcome.  

Answer 12

yeah,,, it is a mental condition that every human being had.