IS it Ok if I don't love my BOYFRIEND??????

Question

We are in relationship more that 2 months.I know that he loves me and that he would do anything for me..

But,I just don't like him.When we just start dating,I thought that he is perfect for me..He is nice,polite,quiet and very smart..But,now I rrealized that we are completely different.If I like something,he does not ,but he will probably said "It is ok,I like it too",or "you are so right".

Sometimes I think that he doesn't have his own personality or opinion..

Like ,he just want to do anything to keep me..

He is so good,I am probably the bad one..Please,tell me what to do.

Thank you

Answer 1

don't have s*x with him if you don't love him, otherwise you will end up stuck to him via child support/ custody hearings etc.

Answer 2

just end it if you don't feel anything for him. your wasting your time and his time in a relationship that's going no where. so if you tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly. that you don't think that the relationship is going nowhere and end it he will have more respect for you than if you drag him along for more time.

Answer 3

It's perfectly normal to not be in love with your boyfriend if you've only been together for 2 months.  It takes 6-9 months in general before you can really know how you feel.

But this is not a case of not loving him.  This is a case of poor compatibility.  It's not going to get better.  So you should break up with him.  It'll sting, but it's better than you being in a bad relationship and him being with someone who can't give herself to him completely.

Answer 4

I just can't even phathom an answer.

Just Keepin it reall! :D