IS something wrong with me ?

Question

i want to buy a new cell and try to send my husband some *msgs*while he dont know about it <to see if he plays those games behind my back or not

my mother says i m becoming crazy and its not that i m just wondering why he isnt telling me things every woman to hear speically that i dont nag or have whinning kids over my shoulders

Answer 1

yes something is wrong with u, people dont like to be tested on character, u dont think hes cheating so dont try him

Answer 2

if you do it he will know sooner or later trust me...

we men can just feel it when women do that kind of things...

Answer 3

Dangerous territory hun, don&#039;t go there, you might find out something that you don&#039;t want to find out about in the first place, leave well alone, ask him out straight if he is playing around, its better to hear it from him than to think the worse with a cell phone. cause they can feel flattered with text messages and it doesnt tell the real story.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you, but cell phones do give you an advantage over what we had many years ago when I felt the same as you, and had cell phones been around then perhaps I would have considered doing the same.  

But one night I decided to do this.  - I bought a bottle of cider and drank it (obviously) and put the empty bottle in a secret place so he couldn&#039;t find it.  This made me feel drowsy and ready for bed.  But I stayed up and had the kettle ready on the boil all the time and when he came in I did not nag him about where he had been (as I had in the past) but offered him a cup of hot chocolate (feeling self-satisfied that I had a drink that he didn&#039;t know about) and acted non-chalant and very normal and relaxed.  Funnily enough he refused my offer of hot choccy and said he was tired  and needed to go to bed.  After this he never, ever stayed out late again.  I think I shocked him by being something other than a moaning groaning wife and he gave up the staying out late.  Perhaps he thought I was worth more than that after seeming so calm and when he came home he perhaps felt in a secure place.  We have now been married 27 years, have never spoken about this subject since and are totally devoted to one another.  I hope this helps.  - Just one other thing - they expect something - so give them the unexpected and keep your self respect.  

Answer 5

That is why a lot of men don&#039;t trust their female companions.  Come on, have some faith!  Unless you have some proof that he&#039;s cheating, leave him alone.  

Answer 6

if you have no suspisions of cheating then you shouldnt be doing this, if he did this to you how would you respond, think about it.