IS this not normal????? or am i overreacting....HELP!!!!?

Question

alight so i just turned 24 a couple months ago..I went out to the mall with my mother and sister on friday..I don't normally go out and check out guys..at all what so ever..but i noticed this REALLY CUTE black guy..he had a pony tail and a hat on and his hair was all curly ...and he was really tall and i just thought to myself...WOW he is really HOT..he had a really good face to...haha anyways we were walking behind him for a while...then i realized he met up with his mother and father!!!!!!! and THEN I REALIZED he was probably 17 going school shopping with his parents!!!!..lol and i just about died..I felt so dirty and nasty!!!!!..like a child molester! He didnt look 17 ..at first glance i guessed he was about 21 22...he was really tall..he really didn't look young at all..and i guess because im only 5 feet..and i look really young..sometimes i think of myself as younger then i really am..IM NOT SAYING that id go for anyone under 22 i never would!!!! but does this make me weird if i find guys attractive then find out they are like 5-6 years younger then me??????? I FEEL REALLY HORRIBLE!!!!! sorry for the typing i was trying to hurry.

Answer 1

why would you feel weird, you didnt know

Answer 2

haha it's not like you hit on the guy or anything. as long as he doesn't look extremely young, i'm sure you're fine. i highly doubt you'll see that guy again anyway.

that happened to me one time, i saw this guy,

and wow, he was tall, and extremely cute, then i asked him how old he was

and he said he was 12 (i'm almost 16) i started flippin out.

cus i felt so weird.

but then again, he looked liek he was about 17 or so, so yeah.

don't worry about this too much.

you didn't do anything to him.

Answer 3

why do you feel horrible?

if a dude is attractive to you, what else are you supposed to do but look!! haha....h**l, i wouldve done the same thing!!

it just sux thats hes just a "lil" bit young hehe....

next time, next time!!

Answer 4

Oh this is normal. Sometimes it can be hard to tell a person's age. I once had a boyfriend that told me he was 21 and at the time I was only 15 and then I found out later he was well into his 30's. I about died when I found out.  

Answer 5

its not bad that u think he is attractive but its would be bad if u pursued those feeling if u just thought he was cute its completely normal

Answer 6

I'm 28 and I find younger guys attractive all the time.  I know I would never do anything with them, but it isn't like they are 12.  Nothing wrong with looking!

Answer 7

woahhh chill out babe. your def overreacting. he looked older its not ur fault. i bet he'd be flattered

Answer 8

gurl you need someone older if you like black guys you should go to a black club 21 and up and i'm sure someone will holla at you

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