Iam 16 and pregnant!?!?

Question

ok basically i took a test its positive and I'm sooo scared i can not tell my boyfriend he will MAKE me get rid of it.But at the moment we are not together so i do not know what to do.please someone help me!!

Answer 1

He can't MAKE you get rid of it it's your body...You have to tell him even if he says get rid of it... and if you aren't together right now why would you be upset if he left you because you decide to keep it... also you need to tell your parents to get proper care.

Answer 2

look I'm 17 ok and I'm prego ... i only have 2 more months till i pop .I'm so excited n i suggest that u keep your baby because if i don't i promise u you will regret it .that's some one growing inside of u i mean let nature take its place it dosent matter if u dont wanna tell him i mean u should tell him but he cant make u get ride of it thats your decision .thats your baby and thing will get alot better i promise . so keep it please . if u would like u can contact me on my email and we can talk [e-mail] !

Answer 3

oh gosh

well its your body he cant "make" you do anything.

and your parents are obviously going to find out

(if you live with them)

you shoudnt keep that your pregnant from your boyfriend/ex boyfriend.

if you dont want to get rid of it then dont. its your baby and its your body not his.  

but if you are thinking of getting rid of it 10 years from now your gunna wonder how your life would have been with that baby.  

Answer 4

ok, i know alot of ppl r saying "its you body" yeah not really...it on loan form God (or who ever) and your doning EVERYTHING 4 2 NOW.

Yes a baby can "ruin" your life, if you let it!

so what if you had plan, plans change with time, and who knows if you gonna carry the baby to term anyway?

you can miscarry anytime, or for example, my best friend had a baby last year (Dec. 3, 2007) and the baby died not even two monthes later (R.I.P JADA, FEB.29, 2008)

blessing come and go....

AND your boyfriend cant make you do anything (i hope he didnt rape you) your knocked up, his FAULT, AND YOURS!

He knew what he was doing when he screwed you (not to sound harsh)

Farmost, i really cant tell u what to do either....nor can these other ppl.....BUT

i say...

U should do it Juno style and tell your and his parents and AT BEST INTEREST OF THIS UNBORN CHILD, keep love, adore, and charish this child, go on with your life, with or without him!

OR GIVE THE CHILD TO SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE THEM!!!!

(open adoption recomened)

Answer 5

Tell someone you trust, such as a parent or other responsibe adult.  Also, do a search online about crisis pregnancy.  There are organizations out there that are willing to help you if you decide to have this baby.  There are places that can help you emotionally, financially, etc.  Even if you need a place to live if your parents kick you out or something, there are organizations to help.  I know there's plenty of help out there, just look for it.  And I wish you the best of luck in your situation.

Answer 6

Unless you are independently wealthy, look into abortion or adoption.  You are too young to financially support a baby, and it's not fair to ask the taxpayers to do so.  

Answer 7

Don't go through it alone.

Get  a close friend to go through this with you and ask her, before doing anything.

Hope this helps.

Answer 8

First of all he can't make you get rid of it. It's your decision. I got pregnant at 16 and I kept my baby. Things were really hard at first but eventually they got better. People would always judge me and look at me with a mean face but I didn't care. I wasn't the first or the last to be pregnant at 16. I think you should keep your baby and if you really don't want it or can't take care of it then give it for adoption. Start eating healthier if you haven't already. Talk to your parents and the father of the baby. Don't forget to go to the doctor the sooner the better. Everything will get better, and if you decide to keep your baby you'll see how much joy it is to have a baby evan if you're young. good luck and I wish you the best, hope everything gets better soon.

Answer 9

Simple.  You tell your parents.

Answer 10

He cannot make you get rid of it - you should def tell him, and if he can't man up then do the next best thing, tell his parents.  If they are worth anything they'll straighten him out.

And don't worry if he wimps out and heads for the hills.  As a product of an ****** "father" and the step-son of a REAL DAD you can rest assured that there are plenty of men out there to take his place and do the job right.

Answer 11

Be responsible.  Talk to an adult/ parent/ him.  He cannot make you get rid of it.  Good Luck!

Answer 12

You need to tell your mom.  You might be scared to talk to her about it...but you are being forced to grow up real quick now, so you have to be mature about it and talk to her right away.  Don't put it off...talk to her today.  She will take you to the doctor and get you the care you need.  Best of luck.

Answer 13

A lot of people dont believe in abortion. You do realize if you keep this baby, though, it will ruin a lot of your plans for being a kid. Not saying baby's are annoying but they take up a lot of time. You HAVE to tell your boyfriend though. I'm also 16 and if i got a girl pregnant I would be understanding, not mad or anything. My dad already told me if I got a girl pregnant he would want me to keep it. Maybe ur b/f would feel the same way? Definately have to tell him though.

Answer 14

You really need to talk to someone you trust. It is not an easy decision to make, and it is not easy to have a baby at a young age. I had my first child at 18, and whilst i did not consider abortion then, I can understand if that is a choice you need to make. Get as much information as possible, find a local health clinic, speak to your doctor and to someone you trust.

In the end only you can decide what you do. No decision is easy, but it is only your choice. You should tell the father however. He may be more supportive than you think, and if you do keep the child, he is supposed to pay child support for it as well. This is as much his baby as yours whether you like admitting it or not.

Good luck in whatever you choose.

Answer 15

It's your decision to get rid of it or not.. not his. Cut this BOSO out of your life if he can't take responsibility. Talk to a school guidence counseler or a community womens center, the can be very helpful.  Best of luck to you.

Answer 16

Don't keep it from him. I think you should just tell him about the baby and how much you want to keep the baby. If he really loves you, he will let you keep it. Abortion is pretty much murder. And he can't force you to get rid of it. I doubt any doctor would preform the surgery if the the patient didn't want it. Good luck.

Answer 17

Your boyfriend can't make you do anything. You should be more concerned about telling your parents, they will be the ones helping you out not your boyfriend who obviously won't be sticking around. Tell your parents right away because if you decide to keep it you need to get tests done, and get vitamins, and if you decided to abort it, you should do it as soon as possible.

Answer 18

no one can make you do anything just tell him and don't have an abortion

Answer 19

well he cant "make" u do anything. its ur body, not his.

Answer 20

get rid of it or tell your parents ASAP....its not your life to mess around with anymore. Its the life of and unborn so what ever you decide, just make it fast so that the baby can have the best treatment also. He is prob young also so he would suggest to get rid of it. At the end of the day its your body. If you were 17 you would have been emancipated but your a year to young so this decision should be made in consult with an adult. Family member most preferably or a medical doctor to determine how long again you have before abortion is no longer and option. Family planning toll free numbers are also in the yellow pages as an option for guidance

Answer 21

you have to think about what you really want for you and if you want this baby or not

i think they might be some person around you you can  talk about this, not necessary your parents but someone who can help you

i don't know how you can do if you don't want to keep this baby (i'm from france and i don't know your medical system)  find a clinic

if you want to keep the baby you' ll have to be strong because it won't be easy but you'll arrive it's sur you will succeed nothing is stronger than love of a mother

i know your situation  i got pregnant  and i don't keep the baby

don't care about what people can say

do what you think is the best for you and the baby

i hope i can help

courage

(sorry if there are faults my english is not very good)

Answer 22

First of all he can't MAKE you get rid of the baby.. you have total control there.. You need to make an appointment with an OBGYN... tell your parents.. have your insurance checked into because some insurance will exclude a minor child that is pregnant if that be the case you will need to go to your gov't office and apply for medicaid assistance for pregant women.. Then I would advise you apply for WIC.  But most important talk to your parents and take care of yourself. I know it is really scary right now but as soon as you tell at least your mom the fear will start to go away