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Question

Iam bad and naughty at school but nice respctful and helpful at hope i be bad to empress people and it only gets me into trouble iam not sure what to do plz help me!!

Answer 1

just be the nice, sweet, pretty, respectful girl and you'll be bound to find decent or awesome people/friends. then if you end up dating someone, you could be bad and naughty...but definitely don't start off as bad and naughty to meet people because you'll just land yourself the wrong title.

Answer 2

You need to look at why you are being naughty at school. Generally speaking people (students) do things for one of two reasons: to get something or get out of something.

It sounds as though you have figured it out. You want to get attention. For the time being, your choice for the way to get attention is to be naughty. Since this does get you attention from both the teacher and some kids, then you keep doing it.

The question is, do you want that kind of attention? There are other ways to get attention at school. You can do your work and get attention for being able to answer questions and get good grades on a test. You can get attention from your friends by being a helpful and caring person, ready to listen and advise.

It would take awhile to change your reputation, but if you consistently choose to get positive attention as above, eventually you will get a new reputation. It may mean some new friends because the friends that enjoyed your naughtiness may not care for the new you.

The other thing to look at though, is to try to see if you are trying to get out of something. Sometimes kids who can't do the work would rather look naughty than dumb. They begin to act up so they delay doing their work or get sent out of the room so they don't end up doing it.

If you look at yourself and you find this is the case, you may need to learn to ask for help. I know this can be hard when you are trying to impress your friends, but it will benefit your future.

Either way, your behavior is a choice. Currently you may be addicted to negative attention, but you can turn things around. You have already made the first move by asking this question.

In any case, you aren't bad. The real you is separate from your behavior. Right now you may be acting badly, but I suspect that your real self is not really comfortable with that. Inside you are a good and decent person, as most kids are.