Iam hurting what should i do?

Question

ok i lost my job and my house i have 3 kids so because i didnt have anywhere for them to stay i let them go and stay with my mom but i am hurting so bad was it the right thing to do

Answer 1

its not about you, its about what is best for your children. get yourself motivated and back on track. FInd another job, get a new home and be with your children.  

Answer 2

If your kids are with your mom, they are safe and well cared for.  As for you, you need to see them as much as possible, or maybe even stay with your mom too.  And go to your local WELFARE office and get help with housing, food stamps and work. You are considered to be homeless, welfare can get you emergency housing ASAP.-Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 3

yes, be lucky you have your mother to help with your kids. you need to find housing assistance and get child support there is help out there. good luck

Answer 4

If I were you, the first thing I would do is cancel your internet subscription and go find a job.

Does anyone find it curious that she gave up her children and lost her home but is still able to access Yahoo Answers on Sunday when the library is closed?

Answer 5

Go with them.

Swallow your pride and go to your mom's with them.

Also, contact your local social services, they will often help homeless families to stay together ...ask them about prevention programs.

GL

Answer 6

yes

Answer 7

Even if it hurts you should always do what's best for your children, make sure you don't drop out of their lives though and when you get things sorted out again you will still have a relationship with them so you can have them back.

Answer 8

yes it is the right thing to do . Until you are stable again

Answer 9

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. But if you didn't have a place to go then you did what you thought was best for kids, sending them to stay with your mom. Im sure it hurts because you miss them, and you feel guilty for sending them away, but you did the right thing.

A good parent puts their children's needs and safety before anything, and that's what you did.

Now you can concentrate on finding another job and getting your life back on track without worrying what your kids will eat tonite or where will they sleep. They're very well take care of now, once you have a place and a job you can bring them back.

My prayers are with you.

best of luck