Iam telling the hole world about this?

Question

i have been married a long time to my wonderful husband. but lately i don't know what is wrong. my daugther tells me he is sick of me. because i don't do anything. i try but for 2 years i really don't cook dinner and clean to much i don't work i try to be the best mom even though my kids are grown and 2 are on there own and one home still.so anyways i phone my hubby today at his break and asked him if i could help my older son out with buying him some food. anyways for the first time in my life my husband said **** off. anyways i did not hear him say that to me on the phone i thought he hung up. so when i got home tonight from being with friends. i walked into the house and he said did you here me today. i said no what t did you have to say. he said **** you again to me. i don't know why he is doing this. what have i done that my husband is treating me mean and now imam hurt but scared at the same time please help me and please do not put me down about me not working. thanks

Answer 1

Preeeetttyy sure you're a troll. I'm sixteen and have better English skills than you. If you're really that dumb and not ******* with us, you probably should **** off.

I mean really. Don't waste my time >:(

Answer 2

Since your kids are almost gone your husband may have been thinking second hunnymoon and you may have been thinking there's no one to take care of or cook and clean for. He may have been feeling invisible for the last 18 plus years and he was finally seen (heard).  In your defence he should of talked to you before he got that angry. You both need to aknolage each others good points and work from there.  

Answer 3

My guess?  He is at work and you cant find the time to prepare him a meal?  I dont always feel like cooking either but I make sure there is something cooked, bought, prepared, something.  And you go out with your friends at night?  Your not taking care of your man.  He is bitter.  Maybe he feels like you are more worried about buying groceries for your grown sons and forgetting about him..

Answer 4

hmm maybe his just angry maybe you should talk to him and start to do things arond the house more so then you dont have this problem

although even if he is angry he shouldnt tell you to **** off

Answer 5

Not enough info in your question like, was your hubby always mean to you or has he changed recently? do you suspect he is having an affair? why don't you cook dinner or clean??

it seems like you are depressed and you don't feel like doing anything all day. do you have a drinking problem or some other addiction we should know about here? start cooking again from today onwards. have a routine. its ok if you don't wanna work outside but atleast keep the house clean and cook. they'll all start appreciating you again. your hubby's attitude suggests that he is trying to have a fight with you either because he wants to vent his feelings and say some things to you face to face or because he is having and affair and wants to leave you. you have to face the music sometime so next time he says **** you, say **** you too a*****e. then he'll burst out saying all he wants. although that won't be healthy communication but if you keep your emotions in check (keep in mind that you just want him to vent. don't say a word after the initial "**** you too a*****e").. listen to him and try to find out whats bothering your hubby and kids then work on that.

Answer 6

What's a "hole" world?  Er, Whole or entire, no?

Answer 7

If I were u I wud ask my family where I went wrong then apologise and beg for their forgivness, cry and do whatever in my capacity. Still i have a feeling that they wud not forgive me easily. Then I would try and transform myself in all spheres without expecting any encouragement from their side. then may be after a few months they wud start talking and behaving normally with me. I know this is a difficult task but I hope it works for you. Try to gain the sympathy of ur children first. If they are with u then half job is done then the rest u can attain with the support. BOL

Answer 8

Sounds like your husband has some deep anger. He is really unhappy about something. It's best to try and talk to him and see if he will tell you whats REALLY wrong.

As a couple you both need to work towards your relationship. So some changes may be needed from both of you to make it work.

Also quick question... Why is your name William...bet your saying your a woman and a mother...?

Answer 9

Start cooking some good meals and keep your house spotless after doing that for a few days spice up your life if you know what i mean....