I'm the long term foster parent of 3 children, aged 2 years, 13 months, and 4 weeks.
The 2 eldest have been with me for almost a year, and have overcome some attachment issues, and only just started feeling more secure and confident around others.
They visit their parents once a week, for 2-3 hours, and are often quite unsettled, the oldest tends to stand himself in the corner and shy away from interactions, and my 13 month old is very grizzly and gets quite distressed on occasions.
The contact is supervised by a government resource worker, so it's not appropriate for me to attend, and being so young I'm stuck for ideas on how to prepare them and support them better.
I show them their parents' photo, and speak positively of them, try to get the kids excited about the visit, etc, and I also acknowledge their feelings when they get home, lots of cuddles, etc.
Any other suggestions on how I can make it easier and more positive for them?
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