If I told you I had a baby at 16....?

Question

would you think I graduated or dropped out?

Do you think Ill go to college?

In college?

AM I good enough for your son?

Its ok to be honest.

Just curious to see how young moms are perceived...

Answer 1

I think you sound like a wonderful person.  The baby was an accident but not a mistake.  But I can't say you're good enough for my son, because... I don't have a son!  I don't have kids, period, and won't for a while.

Take good care of that kid.  From what this question says, you sound like a good mom.

Answer 2

id be like yo b wudup girl *** 2 ma room i show u a real gud time boo

Answer 3

If i was pregnant at 16 i would get an abortion

Answer 4

Too young for s*x!

Answer 5

I wouldn't assume anything about you, other than the fact that you've probably had to work hard for the things that you have since having children, particularly at a young age, means that you will have to work harder in most cases to succeed.

But, as far as anything else goes, just knowing that you had a baby at 16 tells me nothing about who you are now.

Answer 6

If you finished school that's good but when I see young moms I think that must be hard. I don't know if I could've done it so I am amazed when I hear you finish school and have a job and I have time for your kid.  

Answer 7

Just the fact that you had a baby at a young age doesn't tell me much of anything about who you are as a person, or what you might accomplish in life, or whether you'd be a good girl for my son.  You might or you might not be. . . I'd have to know a lot more about you before I could say.

Answer 8

I had a baby at 16.  got married at 18 & had my second baby at 20.  I went to college after high school and went on to have 3 more children.  yes that makes 5.  I would not judge you by your past but by what you are doing now.  as far as my son goes, I might just ask if he is good enough for you.  I have seen enough to know that you can not judge a book by its cover and just because you have a baby at an early age absolutely does not mean life is over.  if not for my children my life wouldn't be as good as it is. now am I condoning teenage parenthood?  absolutely not. for the naysaying hypocrits,  all I can say is...'walk in my shoes then you can judge me'

Answer 9

my mom had me at 16

and my dad was 22

and my mom graduated ( i think u did too)

she's going to college right now to be a nurse( that's kool that ur going to college)

if ur going to college ur good enoguh for anybody's son1

it's pretty kool that ur living ur life with ur child because u'd regret it for the rest of ur life on why u had to kill that child ( i kno my mom didn't want to have me ) so im happy she did and ur child will too

Answer 10

I couldn't do it...You're braver than me....I would have gotten an abortion because I don't want to be another "unwed young black single mother" I don't believe in having children out of wedlock. Why have a child if you don't intend to marry the person? I respect your decision. I'm glad that you're in college and you taking responsibility and being a great mother. Best of luck to you.

Answer 11

I wouldn't care as along as you are taking care of your respectable and not running away from it by having an abortion or giving your child to your parents.  My motto "If you are old enough to have s*x then you are old enough to take care of your respectable."  I know a girl whom happen a baby when she was 16 and she going to college too, so you should be proud of yourself you going to college and taking care of your respectable.  Not trying to get all in your business, but what about the baby's father?  If you are not with him with anymore he should be giving you child support, because it is his respectable he help made the baby too.

Answer 12

graduated

yes

yes

your last sentence said it all dear.....young mom...you kept your baby!!!!   welcome to my family~!

Answer 13

i'd assume you'd b able to graduate high school and college with a ton of support.  i have nothing against young moms as long a they're mature and fully understand that their childhood is over and that they live for someone else now.