If You're On The Receiving End Of Unreciprocated Love, Is It Flattering Or Bothersome?

Question

We all know those that get turned down feel rejected, depressed, etc.

I admit I have a crush over a close friend.

She obviously knows about it, and actually seems to like the attention.

But she and her boyfriend seem to have this on again, off again relationship.

It just comes down to they can't live with each other and without.

But she is still in love with him.

So sometimes I feel like her emotional tampon and/or a suragote boyfriend whenever he or she gets mad and need some "space."

So I accept the circumstances and stay "just friends."

Better to be her friend than not be in her life at all.

So do you have a friendship like this?

Do you find it annoying or flattering to be admired by someone?

Answer 1

its flattering at first but if you get too close shes bound to get claustrophobic. if you dont love the guy, even if you wanted to, you cant and its life. dont waste your time waiting for her. stay her friend but look for someone else.

good luck and i hope you find someone real nice. x